When children reach junior high school and high school, they are usually in adolescence, and children are also rebellious and sensitive during this period. But this period is also the menopause of many parents, so the relationship between parents and children is often very tense in recent years. But I think that creating a better family environment and good parent-child relationship requires the joint efforts of parents and children.

First of all, for children, they are now in adolescence. It is inevitable and normal that there will be various changes in body and mind. But at this time, they have the most basic judgment, the ability of right and wrong, parents' education or speaking style may have some problems, and there may be some generation gap, but for children, they should communicate with their parents in time. For example, I didn't do very well in this exam. Then take the initiative to analyze this reason with mom and dad, instead of waiting for mom and dad to question you with a report card. There are some things that must be told to parents in time, because parents' feelings are understandable. They are particularly worried about their children, fearing that they will encounter all kinds of problems and puzzles in life, study or emotion. So once you have problems or things that you can't solve, you must tell your parents. Don't keep it to yourself. This will not only make you feel uncomfortable, but also make your parents more worried, resulting in a less harmonious relationship between the two sides.

Secondly, for parents, I think it is necessary to have a psychological change, because the child has grown up, he is no longer your accessory, he has his own independent thoughts and personality. Therefore, parents should not interfere too much with their children's study and life, as long as they give them a correct guidance and control their emotions when they have some problems.

I think only two aspects of joint efforts can ensure that children can spend this adolescence well.