As the children grow up day by day, I gradually begin to pay attention to education. Of course, education here refers to reading and learning in a narrow sense. I think this is also a concern of every parent. As parents of children when they are young, we tend to think that she will be happy in the future and need not be so tired. Once upon a time, this was also my idea. Since I want to be happy, there is no need to force her to study. However, after entering the primary school stage, you will find that few parents have ever been able to keep this view. To put it bluntly, in an environment where everyone is pursuing good study, you can't say that you don't care about your grades independently.

This is also a process of my growth as a parent. But there's one thing I haven't changed. Learning is not death.

Some people say that foreign education is good. You see, people don't have so much homework in primary school, they are all playing. I once recognized and respected this view. But later, after learning from many sources, including what I saw and heard when I went abroad, I realized that this simple worship was not desirable at the beginning, and that definition was really too one-sided. Education is not good or bad. The starting point is the same, but everyone has a different way. With the continuous development and improvement of China's economy and the continuous improvement of people's knowledge level, China's education is also constantly changing and innovating, abandoning many wrong views and methods, which is worthy of all parents' satisfaction.

During the Spring Festival of 20 16, I took my daughter to new york, USA, and went to new york's classmate Hu Anjia, where I stayed for a few days. She has two children, about the size of a watermelon. Watermelon is 9 years old and in the third grade of primary school.

Juan's two children leave school at 3 pm every day. I was surprised at the time. Did they go to play after school so early? Of course not. Children will attend various interest classes after school at 3 o'clock, including art, sports and science. I said, don't you have to work in the afternoon? Who will pick you up? Juan and his wife will take turns to take time off on Wednesday to take care of their children's homework, and the rest of the time the school bus will take the children to the place where interest classes are held after school. What time do they spend doing their homework? Do your homework at night.

At that time, I was secretly pleased that China's parents were so happy. Later, I found that this was not the case, at least it was not good for children's education. Children in China don't finish school until after five o'clock in the afternoon, but as we all know, most of the rest of the classes in the afternoon are self-study or play, which is fun, let alone self-study. /kloc-children under 0/0 can do their homework during the self-study class? Unlikely, even if he can do his homework consciously, can the children around him? Is he not affected at all? This hope is very slim.

In fact, we really wasted a lot of time. What are the children in the interest class doing? They have a special teacher to guide them to play, which is completely different from doing homework. Many children's interests are cultivated at this stage, including art and sports. Fortunately, the rise of many interest classes in China has provided "nutritious meals" for our domestic children. This is an improvement!

Let the children go to a prestigious school, not any school with nine-year compulsory education. How to guide children to study actively and make her yearn for a better education? .......

This is the result of my continuous study. My parents must realize this first. What have I learned? What's the change in concept? I want to mention the following two books to you first.

In particular, I am very grateful to New Oriental. After listening to the public welfare speeches of New Oriental several times, I gained this book by Mr. Zhou Chenggang, studied it carefully, and got a new understanding and change on the concept of children's education. This is a sentimental education and training institution, different from other training institutions. Other training institutions are saying that the education in China is not good, the air is not good, and the food is not good. In short, this is not good and that is not good, so we have to send our children abroad. The concept of New Oriental is different. Educate the country, receive excellent education and serve the motherland. Even if you work abroad after studying abroad, you can proudly say: I am from China anywhere in the world.

"I believe that the ultimate goal of our education is to cultivate children who are economically self-reliant, tolerant in thinking, independent in personality, brave in taking responsibility and able to live happily in the future." Zhou Chenggang.