When children are young, our relationship with children is like a big tree and a small tree. Small trees take root and sprout not far from big trees. Worried that the young tree would be blown down by the wind, sunburned by the sun and wet by the rain, the big tree tried to stretch out its branches to shelter the young tree from the wind and rain. The young trees grew up slowly and began to complain that the big trees blocked the sunlight overhead and restricted their growth. The big tree is very sad, knowing that the young tree needs to go through wind and rain to grow up, but the branches that have been stretched out can't be collected.
As a big tree, you should keep a certain distance from the small tree when it is young, so as not to let the small tree grow in its own shadow. What the young tree needs is companionship and encouragement.
Ports and sailboats
When children grow up, our relationship with children is like a calm harbor and a sailing boat. I want my children to stay with me. I hope my children can sail and sail. As a sailing ship, it is necessary to set sail eventually and leave the harbor with endless worries and expectations.
Old home and new home
When our children get married, our relationship with them becomes our hometown and new home. The annual reunion becomes extravagant hope, and every parting may be a farewell. There is only one thing we can teach our children: pay attention to your health and be content.