Many parents will compare their advantages and disadvantages in front of their children, which will make them feel that their parents don't love them. Although what parents say may be true, children always want to get more attention and praise from their parents, and children are often competitive. If his parents say that he is worse than his brother and sister, his self-esteem will also be severely hit.
2. It quite meets the objective needs of two children.
Children have all kinds of needs. If parents only satisfy one of them and neglect the other child, then the child will be hurt by the parents' partiality. There are two treasures at home, so parents need to spend more energy to think and adjust their behavior, meet the needs of their two children as fairly and reasonably as possible, and let them feel the same love.
2. It quite meets the objective needs of two children.
Children have all kinds of needs. If parents only satisfy one of them and neglect the other child, then the child will be hurt by the parents' partiality. There are two treasures at home, so parents need to spend more energy to think and adjust their behavior, meet the needs of their two children as fairly and reasonably as possible, and let them feel the same love.
3, improper children face to face to discuss the situation of two children.
Discuss your situation in front of two children, even if there is no obvious meaning of praise or blame, but the children also have their own understanding. Children with strong self-esteem can not only understand the meaning behind their parents' words, but also have fierce reactions in their hearts. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and don't hurt their children's hearts.
4, improper children face to face to discuss the situation of two children.
Discuss your situation in front of two children, even if there is no obvious meaning of praise or blame, but the children also have their own understanding. Children with strong self-esteem can not only understand the meaning behind their parents' words, but also have fierce reactions in their hearts. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and don't hurt their children's hearts.