Mental health knowledge and case analysis 1
Case introduction: Cao _ _, female, 16 years old, a junior two student. There is also a younger brother at home, whose height is about 1.60 meters. He is in good health, with normal posture, beautiful appearance, strong language ability and no medical history. My parents are farmers and have not read much. My father is strict, unsmiling and patriarchal. He is very close to his brother and has never really seen himself. She hated her father for this, annoyed him from the heart, felt that his father was cold-blooded, and felt that she was an unnecessary person. She sometimes wants to strangle her brother. Father is very partial to his younger brother, and everything is dominated by him. She felt lost and thought that her brother had taken away her love, so she began to resent and even felt that she was not her parents' own. Whenever her father criticized her, she felt wronged and wept alone. She dared to be angry with all this and hid it in her heart, suppressing herself. Her parents asked her to set an example for her brother. When she makes a mistake, her parents will severely criticize her and ask her to correct it, so that her brother can take a warning. So Cao _ _ is a very sensible and obedient child at home. Mother's greatest hobby is playing mahjong, and she is busy doing housework and working in the fields all day. Usually with grandma, who loves her very much, cares about her everywhere and always takes care of her. She has deep feelings for her grandmother, and feels that she can leave her mother but not her grandmother.
I hate my father the most. He is unfair to himself. dead steel is always partial to his younger brother. My father always scolds me? An egg shaped thing, a smelly girl, will marry when she grows up. What's the use of raising you? ? I was upset as soon as I entered school. I can't see anything pleasing to the eye. I feel depressed every day. I want to swear and fight. The main reason is that she went to an internet cafe to stay and let her best friend? Betrayal? Kill her. Yesterday was like this. Although I controlled myself not to do this in the self-study class, I ran out and knocked over the wall with my fist before I calmed down. My hand is still swollen, red and painful. He was in her class before. He cares about her very much. Give her medicine when she has a cold, water when she is cold, and dress her. But when I met the boy's concern, I did not hesitate to establish a love relationship with him, and I dared not say it when I went home. To protect her, he fought for her; In order to attract her, he drank for her and accompanied her to stay in the game hall. Later, he dropped out of school to farm at home. She ignored him, but she couldn't. She said that she broke up with him, and he cried, which caused her psychological pain. She can't sleep well at night, insomnia, headache, dizziness, sometimes palpitation, shortness of breath, chest tightness and stomachache. She thought it was a disease, but she couldn't find it in the hospital.
Case study:
1. The needs of physical and mental development at a specific age: Teenagers are eager to communicate with the opposite sex because of their physical development, but because of their immature psychological development, it is difficult to establish a natural and moderate relationship with the opposite sex, thus falling into? Puppy love? . Cao _ _ lacks strong perseverance and poor self-discipline, which is probably because he can't control his feelings. The whirlpool of love? I'm getting deeper and deeper, unable to extricate myself. Especially since she is an inexperienced girl. She relies on and longs for warmth and love.
2. The need of affection: Her parents seldom care about her psychological needs, which makes her left out in the cold. Therefore, I am eager to get care from other channels.
3. Rebellion is at work: I tried to put out the burning fire of love in a short time, so I solved the problem too quickly.
Being betrayed by a friend makes her distrust anyone, leading to extreme behavior, hostile tendency and aggressive behavior.
5. Psychological reasons: (1) There are cognitive errors, thinking that parents prefer boys to girls and look down on themselves. (2) Emotionally, I can't solve it by myself, because the pressure is too great. (3) lack of strategies and skills to solve problems in behavior patterns, facing the reality, being at a loss and lacking communication.
The main problems are: the change of living and learning environment, parents' eccentricity, classmates' dislike, tense interpersonal relationship, poor learning adaptability, etc., which make the help seekers psychologically unbalanced and have inferiority complex.
Consultation method:
(1) individual talks. I often have a casual heart-to-heart conversation with Cao Zhi.
Generally speaking, I care about her life and sincerely praise her advantages and strengths. I also volunteered to talk about my experience, and promised her as a friend that the conversation would be absolutely confidential, so that she could rest assured. In this way, Cao _ _ gradually opened her heart and took the initiative to speak out her troubles, fearing that her parents, teachers and classmates would not understand her and think that she had deviant behavior. Her parents are very strict with her now because of her best friend's betrayal. There are strict time limits for going out to play on weekends and holidays, and my father will criticize me for coming home late. She feels that her home is different from others'. She doesn't want to go home without warmth. I'd rather stay in an Internet cafe. After knowing her inner world and psychological condition, I carefully analyzed with her, found the root of the problem, made a plan, re-recognized myself, established my confidence and changed myself. Focus on her studies and give full play to her performance skills, so that she can perform Song Dandan's sketches at the school art festival and win the first prize.
(2) Strive for the active cooperation of the family. When I talk to my parents, I first affirm the advantages and specialties of Cao _ _, and let the conversation begin with pleasure. Speaking of Cao _ _, what behaviors should I avoid using? Puppy love? Such as names, inspire parents, respect children, understand children, and communicate with children as close friends. Only in this way can we win the trust of children and better understand their inner world. At the same time, on the basis of respecting and understanding children, pay attention to their study and life, so that children can feel the warmth of their families and not feel lonely. Help children solve the confusion of adolescence. Parents said that they should cooperate with teachers on the basis of respecting self-esteem and help children get out of the misunderstanding of puppy love as soon as possible. Avoid the mistake of children trying to anesthetize themselves with alcohol.
Later, my parents often kept in touch with me and got to know each other's performance.
(3) Use the class meeting for psychological counseling. Carry out education on outlook on life, values and love, set up lofty ideals and find your own life coordinates. Inspire Cao _ _ to treat his behavior correctly, educate girls about self-esteem, self-respect, self-love, self-reliance and self-reliance, and educate boys to respect women. Students know that puppy love is inappropriate, but once puppy love happens, it is not a bad thing. It is a very happy thing to be loved and love others. It's just that adolescent students are not mature physically and psychologically, they are in the period of studying, and they don't have the conditions to deal with love and marriage. If a person really loves another person, he must strive to improve himself, strive to make himself a career, create various conditions for the other person to lead to happiness, seize the good period when he has a good memory in adolescence and is easy to accept new things, study hard, cultivate his creative ability and lay a good foundation for the future society. At the same time, it also teaches students how to communicate with the opposite sex, keep a certain distance, help each other and make progress together. Learn to protect yourself and be responsible for yourself. So as not to go into the misunderstanding of youth.
(4) Discuss the meaning of life through group activities. Let the students watch the news about Wenchuan earthquake on the Internet and TV every day. For those sad and touching scenes, tears always flow wildly. Those young lives, those teenagers and those happy families all disappeared at the moment of the earthquake. Although so many compatriots survived the earthquake, they lost their whole bodies and beautiful homes. How painful! An unexpected natural disaster, so quietly arrival to the world, it brings us more enlightenment: cherish life, cherish happiness, don't wait until you lose everything to know how to cherish.
Mental health knowledge and case analysis II
Case introduction: Teacher Liu, the head teacher, told me? Girl Liu? He took more than 6000 yuan from home to the boys who borrowed money from N city? Flowers. The child may be in puppy love. ? After listening, I met the student Liu for the first time. Some background information about.
Case study:? Female, 13 years old, born in rural areas, adopted by her aunt and parents since childhood. The adoptive father is a famous construction engineer in our city. Usually busy, rough personality, and little communication with adopted daughters. Foster mothers lack knowledge, besides endless nagging, but also lack emotional communication with their daughters, which makes Liu? Money for the temperamental boys in Shuai Shuai, a big city? Have a good impression. When bad young people outside school make trouble for no reason to find money? When in trouble, Liu offered to help, and again and again.
Consultation method:
How many times did I call Liu after the situation became clear? First of all, I affirmed that it is normal and proper for adolescent boys and girls to contact the opposite sex, which eliminated Liu's fear and shyness. Did you tell Liu about the money? After the communication process, I further pointed out to her: Ripe grapes and persimmons are sweet and delicious, but grapes picked too early are sour and persimmons are astringent, although you are interested in money? It's a wonderful feeling, but after all, it's too early. If you really cherish this pure friendship, please bury it in your heart. For your own future, you must not ruin the future of both sides because of your youth and ignorance. When the conditions are ripe in the future, old friends will support you. ? I found another change? Their parents, on the other hand, relieved their psychological pressure and asked him to cool down the relationship and concentrate on seeking knowledge. At the same time, contact the public security department in time to rectify the off-campus environment.
Counseling effect: For more than half a year, Liu and Qian broke off close contact and made great progress in their thoughts and studies.
Mental health knowledge and case analysis III
Case introduction: Xu, male, 15 years old, a day student, with moderate academic performance, good intelligence, special interest in mathematics and physics, and outstanding achievements in science. Stubborn personality, strong self-esteem, and serious rebellious mentality. I often have contradictions and conflicts with my parents and teachers, and my resistance is very strong. The more you object to something, the more he objects to you. At home, once his parents couldn't meet his requirements, he became very angry and rebelled against his parents by being ill in bed and not going to class, which made his parents really helpless. At school, his rebellious behavior is also very sharp. Whenever the teacher criticized him, he looked straight at the teacher, looked unconvinced, and even talked back to the teacher. Because he was talking in class, the math teacher called his name. Since then, he has been against the math teacher, deliberately sleeping in class and not handing in his homework. The questions that can be done in the math exam are deliberately not done, and the math score is often a blank sheet of paper or a few points. I talked to him many times, but he didn't listen to a word. He is a great headache for parents and teachers. Case analysis: Students' rebellious behavior is a manifestation of entering adolescence, and many adolescent children have rebellious psychology towards adults. They often interpret the criticism and help of their parents and teachers as giving them little shoes, thinking that they have hurt themselves, so they will show a serious hostile tendency. There are three main reasons: First, improper family education. Xu's father is an employee of a factory near our school. His work is stressful and complicated, and he has little communication with children. When encountering problems, he will scold children and abuse them. His mother is mainly concerned about the child's nutritional status and academic performance, ignoring the child's ideological education, thinking that the child will be sensible when he is young. On the issue of children's education, their ways are often inconsistent. Second, individual teachers don't understand the psychological characteristics of students, can't treat his mistakes correctly, and handle them improperly, which leads to intensified contradictions and conflicts. Third, teenagers' unique characteristics of being semi-naive and semi-mature make them prone to prejudice when they look at problems. They think that it is brave and heroic to dare to face teachers and parents, so they blindly resist and reject all criticisms.
Counseling method: 1. Strive for parents' active cooperation: first, get in touch with parents, understand Xu's family situation and performance, communicate with parents, reach a consensus on children's education, and do the right medicine.
2. Improve the family education environment: guide parents to read some books to educate their children and improve their education level. Create a good democratic family environment, make friends with children, encourage and praise more, criticize and scold less, treat children's needs reasonably, don't dampen their self-esteem, respect and trust him. Take time to take children to nature to breathe fresh air, arrange meaningful birthday celebrations for children, design various warm family activities, influence him with affection, and gradually eliminate his rebellious psychology.
3, the spring breeze melts the rain, and insists on guiding education: teachers should treat this kind of students correctly, avoid direct criticism, avoid direct conflict with him, pay attention to protecting his self-esteem, and adopt the education method of combining rigidity with softness. Don't call his name in front of the class when he makes a mistake. Instead, when talking to him alone, we should be emotional, reasonable and patient, help him distinguish right from wrong, realize his mistakes, and be willing to take the initiative to correct them. Gradually ease the tense teacher-student relationship.
4. Take advantage of the situation, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses: Teachers should be good at tapping the bright spots of students and give full play to their roles. Take advantage of Xu's advantages in mathematics, physics and chemistry, set up a support group, let him be the team leader, and let him transfer most of his thoughts to his hobbies. The trust of teachers and the support of classmates have greatly changed his attitude.
Self-regulation: instruct Xu to read some books and periodicals about the successful deeds of great men and scientists, broaden his horizons and constantly motivate himself, so that he can understand that only those who are broad-minded and can accept other people's opinions can achieve great things. Pay attention to learning, inspire and induce him to get out of the wrong psychological misunderstanding.
6. Regular and lasting psychological counseling: Xu's stubborn rebellious psychology cannot be eliminated by persuasion and education once or twice. We should grasp it repeatedly, pay more attention to his emotional changes at ordinary times, communicate with him more, understand his inner world deeply, and help him solve his adolescent troubles.
Counseling effect: Through counseling, Xu's rebellious mentality is gradually eliminated, and the tension with parents and teachers is also eased. I studied harder than before, raised my hand to answer questions in math class and handed in my homework on time, and my math score quickly jumped to more than 90 points. What is particularly gratifying is that. What's the point? Now he can help his parents share the housework at home, and he is much more sensible.