Personally, I don't approve of blaming my father's behavior and comforting my children afterwards, which can only deepen the children's disgust at his father's rude behavior and his mother's failure to stop it in time. In front of children, parents must maintain the consistency of education and let children clearly define the boundaries between acceptable behavior and unacceptable behavior. When the child is punished, I suggest: on the one hand, sympathizing with the child's feelings can comfort the child and say, "It will definitely hurt. It seems that dad is angry! " When children are recognized, they will think of their own misconduct instead of adding painful memories. On the other hand, there are many ways to communicate with children's fathers in private, and children are not used for fighting. Beating children has a bad reputation, but some parents still do it. Beating children usually happens when educating children. Threatening, reasoning and other traditional weapons are the last resort after they fail. Often, it is not implemented in a planned way, but after the parents' patience reaches the limit, they will release the repressed tension in their parents' hearts and at least let the children obey for a period of time. Beating a child should be as unacceptable as a traffic accident. Beating children should not be the designated way to discipline them, even if it is inevitable occasionally. In the process of teaching children, it is almost impossible not to fight. But we can't plan. We should take corporal punishment as a response to children's provocation or our own anger. Because the lessons it explains tell us not to, it will teach children to deal with setbacks in a bad way. It vividly tells children: "When you are angry or frustrated, don't look for a solution, but fight." Your parents made this. "We didn't show our intelligence to our children, and we didn't find a more civilized outlet to vent our anger. We gave our children not only the feeling of barbarism, but also the license to hit people. The biggest side effect of corporal punishment is that it may hinder the development of children's moral conscience. It's easy to get rid of children's guilt by hitting them. Children have paid the price for their misconduct, so they will commit it again at will. Children will develop a method that can be called' bookkeeping' to do bad things: they will allow themselves to do wrong things, put them on the account, and then pay the bills by installments with weekly or monthly beatings. Every once in a while, they will provoke their parents and get a beating. Sometimes, they just ask for punishment or punish themselves. Therefore, when children have better ways to express guilt and anger, and parents learn better ways to set and enforce restrictions, the need for such corporal punishment will decrease. By expressing sympathy and understanding for children's emotions, we help children become emotionally intelligent. When we set restrictions on their unacceptable behavior and impose drought restrictions, we show respect, thus preparing children to respect social rules. Good wishes!