(1) When a child asks you a question, do you tell him what you know immediately?
(2) When a child asks you to do some exercises, such as collecting or sorting out information, will you help?
(3) What would you do when your child told you that he was bullied by his classmates?
(4) When children concentrate on an activity (such as reading novels and playing games), are they urged to do their homework?
According to what you said, the internal reason for Xiao Hao's lack of learning motivation is (1) unclear learning motivation; (2) Lack of interest in one's major.
The external reason, that is, family, is that his parents are eager for quick success and instant benefit. What they value more is what major they want their children to study, regardless of whether their children are interested in these majors or not and whether they are suitable for their children to study.
How to stimulate:
1, respect children's interests.
2. Pay attention to linking children's original interests with knowledge learning, and cultivate and stimulate new interests.
3. Accurately judge the reasons why children don't like learning and help solve them.
4. Listen and talk to your children about their study life.
5. Make the desk an interesting place for children.
6, each study time should not be too long.
7. Encourage children to succeed and improve their sense of success.
8. Try to let children create problems and enhance curiosity.
9. Let children be teachers and provide opportunities to use knowledge.
10, start the game
1 1. Open learning plan.
12, using the "reward effect" to stimulate learning interest.
13, discussing his future with children can stimulate his willingness to learn.
14, understand children's learning ability.
15. Cultivate children's habit of making good use of their spare time.
16, parents must strengthen their curiosity.
17, the relationship between parents' education style and children's interest in learning.
18, so that children have a sense of crisis and pressure.
You don't need any plan to do the above things.
Trust your children, they are the smartest and best!