1, set an example. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.

2. Environmental edification. Children should have a good small environment for learning. When studying, they should avoid unnecessary family chats, get together with friends more, and try to tolerate their own shortcomings. Look at the child with a magnifying glass. You know, there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.

3. Criticism and punishment. Criticism and punishment are both negation of children's thoughts and behaviors, but the latter is an educational means to wrong thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we must first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific situation and severity of children's thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the wrong reality. Criticism means pointing out the harm and ideological roots, denying their thoughts and behaviors, making them feel ashamed and miserable, and then generating the motivation to correct their mistakes. When criticizing, don't be sarcastic, sarcastic or abusive.

4, guide the arrangement of life order. A good life order is an effective way to cultivate children's good habits. Guide children to arrange their daily lives, arrange their living environment, and teach them to study and use their time in an orderly way. Let the children make their own arrangements, and parents can give directions.

5. Persuasion education. The specific methods of persuasion education: First, talk. Parents should put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, so that children can understand certain truth. Speak with pertinence and flexibility, and have a pleasant attitude. Don't be condescending and cynical. The second is discussion, where parents and children discuss together. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should admit that their views are incorrect.

6. Practical exercise. The content of practical exercise is quite extensive, such as adapting to the surrounding environment, exercising, self-care, housework, doing homework alone, being polite to others, socializing and so on. To carry out practical exercise, we must first make children clear about their purpose and significance, put forward specific requirements, and encourage them to overcome difficulties and stick to it. The content of exercises should be suitable for children's age characteristics and personality characteristics, and the tasks and requirements given should be based on children's actual ability and appropriate. Children should be allowed to make mistakes in practice and not be too demanding. Parents can't stop exercising because they are afraid of their children suffering.

7. Praise and reward. Appropriate praise is the lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind. Praise and reward is to affirm and praise children's thoughts and behaviors.

8. Guide extracurricular reading. Guide children to read books, newspapers and magazines, and learn useful spiritual nutrition from them. Parents should master the content of children's reading, discuss with children, and guide children to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and get spiritual cultivation through reading.

9. Use home TV. When TV enters the family, children can gain a lot of knowledge from watching TV, increase their knowledge and make full use of it. But be careful: you can't have no choice and don't spend too long. Talk to children after watching TV and discuss the content of TV.

10, leading children out to contact the society. Take children to parks, scenic spots, shops, factories, and rural areas, or visit classmates, relatives, and friends for social interaction, so that they can broaden their horizons, get in touch with society, and get to know society.