Give the child a choice
It is very important to let children do things according to their own interests, which is also one of the best ways to help children succeed. If you let your child feel that she has the freedom to choose ballet or aerobics, she will work harder to do the one she chooses.
Accept him as he is.
Every child grows at his own pace. Comparing your child with other children will make him feel that if he doesn't study and do things according to a certain standard, he is a failure.
Are there any hidden difficulties?
If you have ever asked your children why they suddenly don't want to take part in group activities and do their homework? Maybe he will tell the truth under your questioning. He was bullied by bad boys, he didn't like his teacher and so on. If a child becomes unmotivated, he usually has a reasonable reason.
State your reasons.
If you don't want your child to give up piano education because you are sure it will be good for him, what will you do? Whatever you want to do, don't yell at the child and scold him at the top of your lungs. After shouting for a few minutes, he stopped listening to what you were saying.
Attach importance to the role of praise
Praise must be targeted. Just say, well done, and he will know that you have not really noticed him and his achievements.
Wise reward
Parents will promise that if children do well in the exam, they will get a bike; If you don't do well in the exam, you will get nothing. In fact, it is a terrible attitude to treat children like this. Parents are advised not to give their children too much reward.