Repressive education, also known as mocking education, has far-reaching harm to children. Parents may think that it is just a joke to treat their children in a mocking way, but in fact, the harm of language is more difficult to heal than the harm of body. This paper will discuss the harm of repressive education to children from three aspects.

Hurt self-esteem

Repressive education will seriously hurt children's self-esteem, weaken their self-confidence, and even affect their social skills. When children's self-esteem is hurt, they may start to alienate their parents, leading to tension between parents and children, thus making parents' words ineffective.

Have a heart in mind.

If parents often treat their children in an ironic way, some children may deliberately behave worse in order to confront their parents. Children may have a mentality of "if you say I can't do it, I can't show it to you". This is not their real will, but in order to confront their parents, they may choose to take this road.

♀? Close your heart.

If parents often treat their children in a mocking way, children may choose to close their hearts and are no longer willing to share their thoughts and feelings with their parents. They may feel that it is better to remain silent than to be laughed at by their parents. This kind of communication barrier makes it difficult for parents to understand their children, and also makes them lack the will to seek help when they encounter problems.