Lead: It is a marriage custom in China to play tricks on the bride, the woman and the husband and wife. Relatives and friends can squeeze into the bridal chamber to talk and laugh, and there are many tricks. Not only is it happy to have a bridal chamber, but relatives and friends who have a bridal chamber are also happy to take the opportunity to make a scene and let the bride and groom use all kinds of new tricks? Sitting in a sleeping city? Laugh and cry.
Speaking of making trouble in the bridal chamber, we often see that some places have gone too far, insulting the bride and maid of honor, and finally making it a tragedy. However, when we look through the ancient books, we will find that the ancients were so crazy about the bridal chamber. What some places are doing now is just a tradition that has lasted for hundreds of years.
Experts verified that the earliest poem about disturbing the bridal chamber was The Book of Songs? Tang style? Plan ahead:
? The slightest bit is paid, and Samsung is in the sky. What occasion? See this lover. Son, son, what a good lover!
Take precautions, Samsung is in the corner. What occasion? Seeing this encounter. Son, son, what a surprise!
Take precautions, three stars are at home. When is the evening? Look at this. Son, son, what a pity! ?
The content of this poem is that men and women sing Doby's lyrics in front of newly married men and women. It's a beautiful day, and the husband and wife are so happy.
After that, there are more records about the bridal chamber. For example, in Huai 'an, Jiangsu, when there is a bridal chamber, guests are divided into two categories: children and adults. In the wedding room, please have a glib tongue to preside over the wedding ceremony, and the children are mainly responsible for singing? Making room songs? Lyrics are all about men and women, and I really can't stand it in public. The adult group is mainly aimed at brides. Oh, the bride is beautiful and has a good figure. Just comment on the bride's figure. Did you make fun of it? Most men will let it go, and there is nothing they can do. Some places are more and more popular with men. In some places in Fujian, the man invited six beautiful teenagers to pay their respects. What is this called? For the groom? The woman invited several female companions. What are their names? New aunt? . On the wedding night, get together to let the groom and the new aunts drink, play dirty jokes on each other and touch each other.
/kloc-in Europe in the 0 th and 6 th centuries, there was also the custom of making a wedding. An English princess named Mary 10 married her 14-year-old husband, Prince Olank. That night, the princess was waiting for her groom in bed, and the onlookers were also layered. It took the bride's father Charles I a long time to lead his new son-in-law to break through the encirclement? . The groom kissed the princess three times in full view, and then lay beside her for three quarters of an hour.
/kloc-At the beginning of the 9th century, it was very social to strip off the bride in front of everyone. The male emcee will pull down the bride's garter and tie it on his hat; The hostess will bring the bride into the room and take her to bed. The bride and groom sit at the foot of the bed and throw socks back, just like we saw throwing bouquets at the wedding today.
In ancient times, when everything was polite, how could such a grand wedding be so vulgar? It is worth noting that there is a very obvious feature in the customs of noisy rooms around the country, that is, people's topics and behaviors are related to sex, and the actions and lyrics of noisy rooms have many sexual meanings. The most typical example is in Hengzhou, Hunan Province. In addition to ordering the bride and groom to do some actions similar to having sex between men and women, the funniest person in the village will be invited to play the role of the official. The hall official painted his face black with ink, dressed as a clown, and had lotus leaves on his clothes. In the morning, he used abacus beads instead of beads, and a group of attendants stood beside him. At one order, the bride and groom and their parents-in-law were taken to kneel in class, and court officials ordered their parents-in-law to teach the couple about sex in public, just to explain how men and women should get married.
When the in-laws have finished speaking, I would like to ask two new people to repeat it. If they don't listen, they can even punish them with a whip. Sometimes local people invite one or two excellent models to the wedding? Bridesmaid? 、? Xi Niang? Wait, attract people's attention, let tourists tease at will, and even have sex directly. In the eyes of people today, this is of course extremely uncivilized and unsightly. However, disturbing the house is actually an important part of ancient sex education.
In ancient China, because men were exposed to society, sex education was often done naturally, while women were not so easy. Are you online? See no evil, don't listen to me, okay? Under the new principle, many girls still know little or nothing about sex when they reach the age of marriage. In this case, as the wedding day approaches, on the bride's side, her mother will explain her sexual problems; As for the groom, his father will undertake this task.
But in those days, even parents, some words were hard to say. So there are two ways, one is to use? The bottom of the closet? Pictures, sculptures and objects are used for illustration. In recent years, many such objects have been found in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and other places, and some people have hidden the so-called? Spring palace painting? , also play this role. Another way is through? Noisy Solve the problem. In the old society, men and women often got married without even meeting each other. Through this reckless? Noisy Before entering the bridal chamber, the two couples were somewhat familiar with each other. At the same time, we can also strengthen the progressive explanation and education through this noise.
However, times are changing. By the end of Europe19th century, the British had become accustomed to the small life with the bedroom door closed. It is obviously inappropriate for anyone to make trouble in the bridal chamber again. However, today, in many places in China, the custom of having a bridal chamber still exists, and even becomes more and more absurd and erotic.
In fact, there are many ways for people to receive sex education now, and there is absolutely no need to educate by making trouble in the bridal chamber. And this custom can be passed down, largely because there is no entertainment in the countryside now. However, this messy folk custom of stripping off bridesmaids is simply sexual harassment and sexual violence. Shouldn't it be stopped in time? ;