In Lu Xun's childhood, there was a very unequal feudal order between the old and the young. Lu Xun was extremely disgusted with this inequality, and now he still deeply blames himself in retrospect. My little brother, who portrayed "I" in Kite, was tortured by the spirit of "I" but had no complaints. The "I" in the work has never liked flying kites, and my little brother won't let me fly kites. Once, I rudely destroyed the kite that my little brother worked so hard to make. "In terms of age and strength, he is no match for me." It can be seen that the rude behavior of "I" is based on force. This kind of behavior lacks the minimum respect for children, and it is completely the law of the jungle. Lu Xun used a negative example here to demonstrate that we should respect children instead of killing them, even if it is killing nature.

Mr. Lu Xun once said indignantly: "What education do we have for our children? If we can't even have a small corner, it will be a disaster, and we will only run away like rabbits. " Naturally, escape is not necessarily stable. "It is also under the guidance of this concept that we criticize our own education because the guiding ideology of education itself is problematic. Lu Xun's education is based on passivity, without children's initiative at all. Only slaves, not talents, can be educated in this way.

Lu Xun said in Rousseau and Appetite: "Personality is an abstract noun, which is the sum of all aspects of a person's physical and mental characteristics. There are differences in all aspects of human body and mind, that is, differences in personality. To insult one's personality is to deny one's unique personality. Rousseau admits that women have women's personality, so Rousseau respects women's personality. Those who obliterate women's unique characteristics are insulting women's personality. " This shows Lu Xun's respect for the personality of the educated, who are regular children.

Lu Xun found: "There are only two ways to educate children from middle-class families in China. First, you are allowed to be overbearing, completely indifferent, not allowed to swear, and not allowed to hit people. Inside or in front of the door, there is a tyrant and a bully, but outside the door, like a spider that has lost its net, it suddenly has no ability. Secondly, they are cold-shouldered or reprimanded all day, even beaten, making them shrink back like slaves and puppets. However, parents call it' obedient' and think it is the success of education. When he is released outside, he will never fly or jump. " Obviously, these two ways don't respect children, and the "student-centered" advocated in the classroom now avoids the continuation of this idea.