I always want my children to listen to the opinions of recognized parents. Parents satisfy their desire for control, but ignore their children's feelings. Children need respect and may have different opinions. As parents, we should give our children autonomy, let them make kite lines and let them soar freely in the sky, as long as they pull back the deviated lines in time.
The indoctrination of children by law will also directly affect their three views, which may be correct and positive, or one-sided and narrow-minded.
Primitive motivation, let the children understand why I did it. It is my own business, not my parents'. Every child is great, but parents don't find their bright spots, and their parents' education methods are wrong, so they can't cultivate excellent children!
Therefore, I believe that we must educate our children according to their personality, instead of just preaching at the right time. We should advance together according to their personality, hobbies and life plans, and reach the relationship between teachers and friends with them, teaching them in accordance with their aptitude and step by step. Look at the advantages of children, make full use of his advantages to make up for his shortcomings, and encourage education is far more important than keeping up with the joneses! Everyone encourages!
In the program, Yuan Jingyi, a junior girl, came to the stage to shout, accusing her mother of always comparing herself with the senior girlfriends who are "the first in the class, the first in the whole grade, the first in the whole school, and even the first in the whole league".
To tell you the truth, I was a little embarrassed in that atmosphere. After all, my colleague's youngest son is 6 years old, and he knows how to distinguish the implied meaning in his mother's tone.
Second, because the mother went to the toilet, I held the child for a while, and my son told me, Mom, don't you love me anymore?