Many places have the most beautiful teachers and outstanding students. Although it can't be said to be completely fair, the selection criteria are also the consensus reached after years of running-in. Most importantly, this choice points to a public identity, which makes it possible to compare with each other to some extent.

But "parents" point to family identity, which is a very personal experience, and others have neither a position nor the right to evaluate it.

It is undeniable that some parents do better in reality, perhaps because of advanced educational concepts and scientific and effective educational methods, or because they pay attention to communication with teachers and schools, and even often appear in schools as volunteers.

Schools and teachers can praise this, but it is not appropriate to use a "title" to set the tone. This tone not only makes people doubt the credibility, but also cannot guarantee a positive effect-it can only increase parents' anxiety beyond 100.

What's more, we have to consider the distortion of this appraisal in reality. Some netizens pointedly pointed out that this is not the "official national spelling bee"? Although the words are extreme, they also hit the nail on the head: will you get a direct election quota because "my father is the leader"? Will it cultivate a group of "drama" parents? Will there be parents who take the side door for their children?

It may be well-intentioned to grade other people's parents in the official name, but these practical problems can not be ignored. Fortunately, many children are considerate of their parents and have no resentment because of losing the election. In the final analysis, a good home-school relationship should be based on mutual understanding and trust, rather than rigid classification, so that one group of people can learn from another.