When children are out of control, angry and crying, parents have a headache. They reject their children's state and are eager to "control the situation": reason with their children; Direct cold treatment; Compromise with children ... We have done a lot of homework, but neglected the most important first step-accepting children's emotions.

Sun Li, a famous actress, has been praised by many educational experts for her "parenting concept". She said: When a child is dissatisfied, angry and sad, all he needs is your hug, don't preach, understand him from his point of view, support him, encourage him, and wait until he is in a good mood to talk about those big truths ...? Yes, in a sense, being reasonable without worrying about children's emotions is also a kind of "domestic violence". But in fact, it is a good thing for children to lose their temper, and it is a bad thing to control their bad emotions under siege.

Brain science research shows that our right brain is mainly responsible for emotions, while our left brain is responsible for rational thinking. When a child is in a big mood, the right brain is much more active than the left brain. At this time, it is hard for children to listen, but it is easy to encourage bad emotions. ?

Rousseau once said: reasoning with children is the most ineffective education. Empathy, when adults have emotions, what they need most is understanding and comfort. Therefore, in the face of emotional children, parents should first communicate with their children in a gentle and firm tone and guide their emotions with their own emotions.

I seldom pay attention to the family life of celebrities, and I don't like babies very much, but the Sun Li family is so cute. The two children are naive, with wild ideas and warm and kind hearts.

Children are so cute. The key is that Sun Li and Deng Chao are also cute. Their views on family and parenting are worth learning. To tell the truth, it is better to give children the best possible material conditions than to give them a loving and inclusive growth environment and sufficient room for growth.

Sun Li's second child-rearing concept is really good, and we can learn a lot. This kind of education is worth learning. I am looking forward to the variety show with Xiaohua.