Zheng Banqiao, a gifted scholar in the early Qing Dynasty, was born in Xinghua, Jiangsu Province, and his pen name was Zheng Xie. He was famous for painting orchids, bamboos and stones. He is an outstanding representative of "Eight Eccentrics in Yangzhou", and his artistic achievements have attracted worldwide attention. When he was a county magistrate in wei county, Shandong Province, he gave his 6-year-old son Bao Xiaotuo to his younger brother Zheng Mo for care. In order to educate his son, he wrote an affectionate letter to his younger brother, explaining the way he loved his son.

Avoid deterioration

Zheng Banqiao emphasized that the way to love children should first avoid doting, so as to cultivate children's independence and integrity. Only by letting children learn to stand on their own feet can they become real people.

Don't pursue fame and fortune excessively.

Zheng Banqiao believes that the way to love children is not to pursue fame and fortune excessively, lest children fall into snobbery and greed. He hopes his son can become a moral and responsible person.

Be a kind and kind person

The most important thing for Zheng Banqiao to love his son is to educate his children to be kind and upright, and to accumulate virtue and benefit the world. He hopes that his son can sympathize with the people's sufferings and be a caring and compassionate person.