Avoid deterioration
Zheng Banqiao emphasized that the way to love children should first avoid doting, so as to cultivate children's independence and integrity. Only by letting children learn to stand on their own feet can they become real people.
Don't pursue fame and fortune excessively.
Zheng Banqiao believes that the way to love children is not to pursue fame and fortune excessively, lest children fall into snobbery and greed. He hopes his son can become a moral and responsible person.
Be a kind and kind person
The most important thing for Zheng Banqiao to love his son is to educate his children to be kind and upright, and to accumulate virtue and benefit the world. He hopes that his son can sympathize with the people's sufferings and be a caring and compassionate person.