In fact, mother Kong has long noticed the bad blood between girls and deliberately left to let the incident ferment before handling it. Confucius punished three girls for copying books fifty times, and invited adults, Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Lin to ask questions in front of everyone. Mother Kong: "Do you know you are wrong?" Everyone said they were wrong. Mother Kong: "I think everything is right. Most things in the world cannot escape a reasonable word. I don't like to say one thing to my face and one thing behind my back. If I don't get it, I must pass it on. Now, in front of my sisters and your parents, I will make it clear once and for all. "
People should learn to be grateful, and their families should not be arrogant and arrogant, and run on their families. Mother Kong said, "Let's talk about the first thing first. Four girls and five girls said that you stole my sister's thunder everywhere and took up my class time. Do you recognize it? " Huei-fang said silently, "It's all Mo's fault. I thought mother Kong seldom came here, so I wanted to learn more, win honor for my father and my family. I didn't expect to offend all my sisters. "Mother Kong:" Huei-fang, you are smart and excellent at everything, but I still want to advise you not to treat others as fools just because you are a little smart. You know, cleverness is mistaken for cleverness. " "You made two mistakes. First of all, you made a mistake. You had a fight with your sister. If you don't keep your mouth shut, you will become a concubine. I haven't been in this house for long, but I can see it clearly. You can tell your conscience how your father treated you. Although I am a concubine, I can keep it at my birth mother's place, and I have no worries about food and clothing. If you don't agree with each other, you will live to complain. Is this the norm for everyone? "
"Second, you have a bad idea in your heart. You keep saying that you want to learn something and win honor for your family. Are you the only girl in Fu Sheng? Don't only have a long face, Fu Sheng will have glory? Where are your sisters? They don't need to learn anything, they don't need to pull a long face? " "Four girls, I know you are always top-notch, but each has his own way. It seems that five girls picked the head today, but it has a lot to do with you. You are competitive everywhere and always take the lead in everything. When something happened, you cried and blamed yourself for being an unmarried woman. When you do this, you can read a little bit of sisterhood and a little bit of father's love. " Mother Kong really hit the nail on the head. Moran was obviously favored by her father, but she was not grateful. Instead, I ran my sister around, played tricks, complained about everything, and cried and pretended to be pitiful.
For children, parents asked for a bowl of flat water. Mammy then said to the dignitaries, "In a family with many children, parents need a flat bowl of water to keep the house quiet.". Although sisters should be humble to each other, it must be this concession or that concession, and one concession cannot be allowed. After a long time, there is inevitably a gap between father and daughter. " Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents should not only educate their children, but also set an example. It is difficult for them to live in peace if they always prefer one child. Spoiled children tend to be spoiled and arrogant, while neglected children will be dissatisfied. In life, many parents will also let older children make way for children. In fact, let the older children take care of the children, and let the children care about the older children in turn. Because only mutual care can make the relationship harmonious.
Pay attention to your discretion and learn to control your temper. Sister Kong said, "Miss Wu, it is common for sisters to quarrel. When you are angry with your sister, you add fuel to the fire and openly poke people's heart and lung tubes. If you know that disaster comes from your mouth, you must change your temper, otherwise it will lead to great disaster in the future. " When people are angry, it is particularly easy to say radical words and make radical actions. Many people will say that at home, we can't help losing our temper and saying radical things. This is because family members are the closest people to us, and we know that even if we say too much, there will be no problem. Although the family members who love us most will not leave us because of this, the scars in their hearts are indelible. If you lose your temper outside, you are likely to get into trouble and be hated, and the consequences will be more serious.
Mother Kong: "Six girls, you must feel that you have nothing wrong today, and you shouldn't be implicated, right?" Today I tell you a truth. Brothers and sisters in a family share the same spirit and share weal and woe. You will be honored in the future, and so will the whole family. If you lose one person, the whole family will lose one person, and no one will run away. Today, although you are not wrong, your sister is wrong. Are you right or wrong? " I think Ming Lan has been punished for everything, which is really wrong. But I also feel right after listening to Mother Kong's words. I think Mother Kong should punish Ming Lan equally, so as not to make others feel partial and unhappy. Punishing Ming Lan is also protecting her. In real life, a family is not as complicated as in TV series, but there are many brothers and sisters. It is also necessary for relatives to support each other.