Long-term lack of father's love and care, as well as mother's hatred and hostility to father or the opposite sex, will form bad feelings, numbness and fear of the opposite sex, which will seriously crowd out the opposite sex. When you grow up, it is difficult to deal with the relationship with the opposite sex, distrust love and crowd out marriage. Girls can't get their father's "attention, care and love" for a long time, and they will lose their sense of security without their father's peaceful embrace; Inferiority, lack of self-confidence, full of vigilance and distrust of the outside world. In this state of mind, I often make compromises in my marriage. This kind of "as long as someone is nice to me, get married!" Mentality, leading to the final marriage object is much worse than their own conditions, and the later satisfaction is very low.

First, the father's lack of education will have a bad influence on the boy's character, and there will be serious defects. Father's role and behavior are irreplaceable by mother. The obvious male personality characteristics of the father, such as heroic, strong, generous, generous and adventurous, will be imitated and learned in the process of boys' growth. If it is missing, the child will lack masculinity and seriously become "sissy". Some institutions have done experiments, and boys who lack fatherly love will be psychologically influenced to varying degrees. Most of them are introverted, inferior, cowardly and extreme.

Second, it will also have an impact on children's cognitive and social attributes. The nature of labor, sports variety and repair ability that the father can operate will also give the child an indispensable cognition, which can arouse the child's practical ability, imagination of things and desire to explore the unknown. The lack of these aspects will affect the child's life. Father's social behavior, children will also hear, witness and simulate, such as the lack of this aspect, the impact on children's mood, personality and communication skills is also very great; These shortcomings will make children weak in height, weight, physique, intelligence and emotional intelligence.

Father's absence in education will have a far-reaching impact on the lives of boys and girls. I hope that all fathers, no matter how busy they are at work or how bad the relationship between husband and wife is, will participate in the growth of their children and spend more time with them, just for the sake of their lifelong happiness.