Girls know how to play hard to get and know how to be reserved and not take the initiative.
Don't be too active emotionally, because it will make boys think you are a girl who is not reserved. Once a girl is involved in the word "not reserved", it will give a bad impression.
Keep your distance, not too close.
When you are in love, you should step by step, don't make too fast progress, keep your distance from boys, and let boys think that you are a girl who knows how to respect yourself and is not casual.
Learn proper rejection and disobedience.
If you think some of the boy's demands are inappropriate, you can refuse them, or just tell him that they are wrong. He won't think you're corny, he'll think you're cute.
Stay away from unreasonable troubles and treat them calmly.
If you see your boyfriend talking and laughing with other girls, be calm. Don't go up and ask questions, which will embarrass both of them.
Learn to distinguish between occasions and things.
It is necessary to be spoiled with your boyfriend, but it is easy to make people feel sick to sprinkle dog food on any occasion.
Learn to be coquettish, but enough is enough.
Blindly coquetry will only make your boyfriend think that you are a prisoner, but enough coquetry will make him remember deeply and look forward to your next performance.
Don't be jealous, be rational.
You have to understand that your boyfriend can't be your own. He is still a friend and his parents'. Don't be jealous because your boyfriend has contact with others. He will only think that you are unreasonable.
Don't make wild guesses, trust him.
When he realizes that he has done something wrong and wants to apologize to you, forgive him in time, but don't pretend to be indifferent, let him know that his actions have hurt you.
Don't talk too much about yourself with boys.
If you tell your story at the first meeting, you are really careless and easy to fail, because he has lost interest in you.
Keep a sense of mystery and leave room for yourself.
Before meeting, you should keep your mystery in a cold tone, give him imagination space and let him fill in the scene of meeting you.
1 Keep it fresh and let him look forward to the next meeting.
Do something unexpected, keep fresh, don't tell him everything about yourself, and make him look forward to seeing you next time.
1 Don't talk too much when chatting.
Let him be the leader of the topic, and don't talk too much. Keeping quiet will give him a quiet feeling and make him have a better impression of you.
1 Understand the truth of "say half"
All the words, unclear, can only give people room for reverie. If they all know, how can he feel the process of getting along with you?
1 Learn to use meaningful words.
The so-called "meaningful" is incomplete, such as: forget it, let nature take its course, or don't, you ... this endless talk will arouse his curiosity.
1 Pretend to think before agreeing to the invitation.
Don't answer immediately when a boy is invited, but pretend to think, which will make him think that you are a serious girl and make him look forward to being with you more.
1 adds some passion and fun to life.
Life is boring most of the time. Learn to discover the joy in life, then share it and rekindle its passion.
1 Give him some small surprises from time to time in life.
Creating surprises is a good way to warm feelings. Don't assume that boys will create surprises. Boys are really surprised when they are surprised.
1 Let your boys have the idea of finding your best side.
You should have something that can attract a boy, whatever it is, to keep him curious about you.
1 There should be a proper quarrel, but pay attention to the discretion.
A proper quarrel can warm up the feelings of two people. The so-called "beating is kissing, scolding is love, and not beating or scolding is not love" is the truth.
Don't let him take you home.
At the end of the date, refuse his request to take you home, because you are not at that level. Don't let him do such a suggestive thing.
Don't meet too often.
It is easy for two people to meet every day without topic. Every day is just a small thing, there is nothing fun and no surprise.
Don't chat too often, but intermittently.
Don't talk to him all the time, speak intermittently. If he asks, you can come back later, but don't reply too much.
Sometimes it's cold and sometimes it's hot.
The core meaning of playing hard to get is looseness and tightness. Don't look at him too close, and don't indulge him too much. Yeah, he's hot and cold.
Ask people around him about him so that he doesn't understand your intention.
Pretend to mention him to others unintentionally and get to know him. Of course, he will know that you are asking about him, but don't show interest in him.
2. Make yourself excellent and make boys want to stop.
It is the real skill to be able to shine without pearls. If you become excellent, boys will naturally admire you.
2 show a confident attitude
Be confident in doing things in front of boys. After all, confident women are the most beautiful.
2 enhance their own charm
Take some time out to get in touch with your hobbies, so as to enhance your charm and let Kan Kan talk about it in front of everyone.
Learn to be considerate and gentle.
Although it is natural for boys to take care of girls, you will learn to be considerate and gentle at this time, which will make him like you more.
Make men feel trusted.
When you are sure that what he has done is not out of line, you should make it clear to him that you trust him.
30. Give men enough face
Men have the most face when they are outside, and they can do whatever they want at home, but they have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses outside and should be given face.
Don't casually agree to a man's invitation.
You must refuse an invitation from a boy who comes casually. You don't have to think about it at this time, because his attitude is not serious, and you don't have to be serious.
Don't be strong in front of boys.
Men prefer the girls in Innocent Girl at first, so don't be strong in front of him.
3 Appropriate weaknesses
Sister, you have to remember that you will always be a girl, and showing weakness appropriately is your advantage.
Learn to give him the cold shoulder
Don't be too enthusiastic about him, learn to give him an unintentional indifference, such as not responding to messages in time or not answering the phone.
Let boys have a feeling that they can't catch you.
When a boy thinks you are his property, he won't cherish you, so let him have a feeling that he can't catch you.
Give him proper private space.
You should remember that he is not your own, but also someone else's friend, so you should learn to leave him a proper private space.
Learn to respect him.
Don't interrupt him when he is talking. Many girls can't do this, but if you do, you will make him feel that you respect him.
Learn to contradict him.
When he gives an opinion, you should learn to refute him, even if you know he is right, you should refute him, and then suddenly say to him: You are amazing!
Give him a chance to get close to you.
Don't be a "sorghum flower", it will only make boys afraid to approach you and express their goodwill appropriately.
40. Let him read your mind.
Don't pretend to be profound, it will only make him think you are pretending, but it won't let him see through your careful thoughts.
Let him feel that there is a gap between you, but this gap is easy to narrow.
Give a boy he doesn't deserve your illusion, but this gap can be filled. With proper encouragement, he will definitely work hard for you.
Have something in common with him and make him look forward to your expression.
The common topic of two people is definitely the most important, because it can help you understand two people's different views on the same thing.
Don't rush to contact him.
Send a few messages at most every day, it is best not to call every day, and don't contact him in a hurry.
Let him follow your rhythm.
For what is about to be done, we should have a rough schedule and leave when the time comes, and don't show reluctance.
Resist the desire expressed in front of him.
When men and women are together, it must be girls who talk a lot, but when they meet for the first time, they must resist the desire to express themselves and be reserved.
4 let him have a sense of crisis
Pretend not to mention another boy in front of him, but not too much, let him know that he is not the only boy around you.
Make him think he can control you.
Boys don't like people or things that are out of control. Your performance should let him know that you can control them, but it's not that easy.
Give him an unexpected answer.
The collision of two people's thoughts is the most wonderful. If you give him an unexpected answer to one thing, he will definitely look at you with new eyes.
Learn to defy the boy's wishes and let him lose.
When a boy thinks you will definitely agree, you have to refuse, because you can't obey his wishes and make him feel lost.
50. Let him know from the contradiction that you are not entirely his.
Quarrel is a contradiction, you should stop it in time, but your way is not to find him, but to find someone else, so that he can realize that you are not the only one who can rely on him.
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