1 First of all, we should establish good communication methods with children from an early age, be able to listen to their confidences patiently and solve their troubles in time. Adults seem indifferent to children's distress, but children get comfort and warmth from adults' attention, respect and equal communication. Infiltration of affection is the best cultivation of children's psychological security. A family with good communication will get mutual understanding and support because of good communication, no matter what setbacks and changes will happen in the future. Even in the child's adolescence, rebellious period, etc. They can keep the bottom line and won't let their children be like kites with broken lines.
2. Cultivate children's self-care ability and cultivate children's good living habits. There are always many people who ask how to cultivate children's good study habits, and their eyes are only on learning. As an old teacher, I will give you a piece of advice: I want children to have good study habits and cultivate their living habits before entering school and when they are young! The top students in the class are often children with strong self-care ability, while the poor students are often children who can't even pack their schoolbags well, often children with messy desks and potholes, and often children who can't wear clothes and tie their shoelaces. A person's ability to live directly determines his ability to understand, analyze and accept, which is the key to his study. You didn't let him do anything since you were a child. Everything was for him. That laziness has permeated your whole body, but you still want to make his head work hard after you enter school. Isn't this a pipe dream? Do you think that learning is only learned with your brain?
3. Educate children to obey the rules from an early age! At any time, this society has rules. When a child is young, you think it's no big deal that he breaks the rules. When you feel unbearable, it's a little late. Tell children the correct rules from the traffic lights when walking, from not disturbing others in public places, from caring for the surrounding flowers and trees, and from what they say and do when interacting with people. Only after going to school can he observe classroom discipline well and get along well with teachers and classmates.
Have you thought about these inconspicuous details of life education? Have you noticed? I believe that parents who pay attention to these details will never give birth to a poor child. Even if the child's intelligence is not excellent, it will definitely give birth to an upright, kind and sunny child!