Just because his father didn't know how to educate him, he beat him with a stick, which led his daughter to run away from home. As a father, we should educate our children scientifically and democratically and simply and rudely with a stick. This is a disrespect for their personality independence and will have a great impact on their self-esteem. This situation is very common in China. Why do parents in China like to beat their children?
China's traditional culture also emphasizes introversion, repression and non-expression. When I was a child, I believed that there would be all kinds of negative emotions in my mind, but we couldn't express them. Sadly, under the influence of our traditional ideas, we rationalized these experiences: "If you do something wrong, you should be beaten."
Habit, China history intentionally or unintentionally praised the saying that "a dutiful son is born under a stick", which enabled this behavior to continue. Psychological problems, the older generation tend to make decisions for the next generation, with the label of "for your own good", which makes the "pay" and "return" inconsistent, and it is easier to push the mistakes to the children psychologically, leading to emotional outbursts and intensified beating behavior.
Summary: "Love well and manage strictly", parents should say more words of encouragement to their children, share more happy times with their children and give them more room for development. I believe that children must be the best. ?