First, netizens think that parents' behavior is disrespectful to their children; They take it for granted that parents provide universities for their children; Think that the scholarship is taken by the children themselves and should be dominated by themselves; Compassion for children, it is difficult to understand children "; Some people even bluntly said that this is a typical "East Asian parents PUA".
Secondly, there are obviously more netizens on one parent than the other child. They think the behavior of the netizen's father is understandable. Using this scholarship can not only let children go to school, but also reduce the burden on families. It can be said that it is a win-win situation, but it is misunderstood as "PUA".
On the other hand, some netizens pointed out that money is spent on children, and parents have to subsidize the living expenses of 1200 yuan every month. There is nothing wrong with parents not only not encroaching on their children's money, but also giving them corresponding living expenses. More importantly, it is not entirely natural for parents to send their children to college. But is financial support from parents taken for granted? Obviously, this view is absurd, and people who take it for granted are even less grateful. After graduating from high school, you 18 years old. Since you want to manage the scholarship yourself, isn't it good to pay for the tuition and living expenses yourself?
Some people even boasted that the tuition should be paid by their parents, and even said that my sister took her father's living expenses at the age of 32. This kind of children can only say that life is too comfortable, because the family economy is good, parents usually love their children, and children don't understand the difficulty of making money. However, this cannot be a reason for children to take their parents' efforts for granted. As the netizen who "accused my father" said, he always said that the scholarship was his hard work, and he didn't think his father would help. This idea completely obliterates the efforts of parents.
Don't talk about life, just talk about education. Everyone can see the process of children from primary school to college entrance examination and the hard work of parents. Those jokes about accompanying the baby to do homework and sending the baby to extracurricular classes are not groundless, but he thinks that his grades have nothing to do with his parents, but are the result of his own efforts. You study hard, who will protect your food, clothing, housing and transportation? Who is supporting your education? Who gave you the opportunity to speak online? A little achievement will instantly obliterate the hard work of parents for so many years. Is this ungrateful behavior good?
Finally, the last thing I can't understand is that your father decided how to use your scholarship without your consent, which is technically disrespectful to you, but it is also the reason why you can publicly call your father "disgusting and despicable". What's more, the money is spent on you, and he gives you 1200 every month. If you don't care about you and don't support you, just because you think you don't respect you, you slander the father who raised you. Where is your conscience?