2. Pay more attention to the child in life, analyze and help him set some suitable goals together, give appropriate praise when the child reaches the goal, and encourage him to move forward to the next goal.
Parents should take praise and encouragement as the main methods to educate their children. Children basically know themselves according to their parents' evaluation. Almost every parent has the idea that educating children means constantly pointing out their shortcomings and shortcomings, criticizing their incorrect behavior, and thinking that children will gradually get better. In fact, this practice is extremely wrong, and people will not get better because of criticism. Children need constant encouragement and praise from their parents in order to gradually build up their self-confidence. Parents should try their best to discover their children's advantages every day and praise their children's advantages with appreciative eyes and happy mood. When their children make a little progress, they should praise and encourage them in time.
4. Avoid comparing other people's children with your own. Many parents, in order to educate their children, always compare their well-studied classmates with their own children, or compare the children of their comrades-in-arms with their own children, trying to let their children learn the advantages of other children, or stimulate their self-motivation. This practice is extremely harmful to the growth of children.
In addition, it can also be done as follows: 1. Finish your homework on time. The amount of study every day is relatively large, so children should be urged to finish their homework on time every day and develop good study habits. Never indulge his temporary laziness.
2. Set an example. As parents, we should keep learning and set a good example for our children. Teach children the correct ways to do things and learn with their own words and deeds.
3. Exercise opportunities. Don't let children study or work blindly, but should combine the two. Give children more opportunities to practice and let them learn the truth in practice.
4. praise and encouragement. If a child can persist in doing things and studying according to his own principles, he should praise and encourage him more and give him a positive image so that he can persist.
5. Independent thinking space. Don't help your child immediately when he is in trouble. On the contrary, children should be given space to think independently. Often his own way of thinking may be more effective than what we provide.
6. Let the children compare with themselves. The mistake parents often make is to compare other people's children with their own. In fact, we should compare our children with our past selves, and it will be excellent to make a little progress every day.