1. Let children adjust their emotions when they make mistakes and accept natural results. For example, when children are faced with unsatisfactory test scores and depressed mood, parents should not immediately take comfort or scolding, but should let their children adapt to their own failures.

2. Let children develop the habit of correcting mistakes independently. For example, in the process of doing homework, children should be allowed to complete it independently within the specified time, and parents can't correct mistakes. Then set a certain time for children to try to find their own mistakes, and cultivate their independence by actively seeking ways to correct them. Parents should guide their children to be satisfied with the results of their independence.

3. Let the children who have been in good times feel that something is wrong. Some children are especially clever in life. Perhaps because of family conditions or living environment, they grew up in wealth. At this time, parents can't let their children always feel superior. Perhaps one day or in society, children may suddenly encounter a big setback, and they may lose confidence in life and never recover. Therefore, parents should create some setbacks to make their children feel failed, but don't deny their previous success. In fact, don't worry too much when you know that children are quibbling, because children's quibbling is a sign that they are beginning to know what is right and wrong. Some children realize their mistakes, but in order to avoid excessive punishment from their parents, they begin to quibble. When children make mistakes, parents can effectively improve this situation by taking correct measures.