Parenting education activity is an arrangement to promote the affection between parents and children in society. Through a series of methods, parents and children can achieve good interaction and communication, thus creating an atmosphere of harmonious coexistence between the two sides. In recent years, due to busy work, there are fewer and fewer opportunities for parents to communicate with their children, which often leads to the intensification of family conflicts in society, which is very unfavorable to the healthy development of children's body and mind. What should parents do to warm up their relationship with their children when the school arranges parenting education activities?

First,? Be clear about your role. Understand the significance of parent-child activities. ? First of all, parents should understand their role as parents of children. The people who have the most contact with children in their lives are obviously parents. Although this activity is organized by the school, the children's life is not only spent at school, but also the parents' participation in the future.

As parents, we should understand that parent-child activities need active participation, and should not think that schools or children force us to participate. Get rid of the teacher as the main participant in the activity, establish yourself as the master of the activity, hold the initiative in your hand, and happily carry out the activity with your children. You can't watch your child do every link as a bystander. It can be said that it is a child's activity, not a parent-child activity. Therefore, parents should understand the significance of holding parent-child activities in order to consolidate the relationship between children and parents and achieve a friendly state.

? Second, establish a good image. Set a good example for children. ? In order to get along with their children more like friends, parents will actively interact with their children in parent-child activities, but some parents may feel that in order to take care of their own face, they can only establish a dignified image in their children's minds, so that their children can behave themselves and listen to their own words, but in fact, this is not good, and children hope to communicate openly with their parents. Everyone has their own ideas, and children are willing to tell their parents what they think. Therefore, parents should establish a positive image in parent-child activities and set a good example in the process of playing games with their children, so that children can learn their positive attitude and spirit of exploration.

Third, give children full encouragement. And affirmation. ? In the process of playing games with children, parents should speak words of encouragement generously, and don't be stingy with their affirmation, because a confident child, after being affirmed by his parents, will feel that his parents like him very much, will be more willing to communicate with his parents, and may even tell his parents his innermost secrets. In this way, parents can better understand their children's innermost thoughts and can greatly reduce the occurrence of family conflicts.

Throughout the ages, many bad phenomena have occurred because of poor communication between the two sides. It will be very useful to avoid these situations and further sublimate the feelings between children and parents.