Professor Peking University: The child is 5-8 years old. What kind of "doting" parents can make them grow into promising people? There is a saying in historical records: "If the son doesn't teach, the father is guilty", and the education of children has always been a particularly important topic in family discussion. With the development of China's education industry, how to grasp the scope and limits of education and how to choose the right method to send appropriate information to children have gradually changed. Many parents will realize that "one size fits all" authoritarian cultural education is no longer in line with children's correct teaching philosophy, but in the view of experts and professors at Peking University, 5-8 years old is a critical period for children's development. Parents in this period learn to be "presumptuous" in the following three points, which is conducive to the growth of their children.

1, the dominant position determined by things

With the growth of age, children's personal hobbies will gradually become clear, their views on things will gradually take shape, and their willingness to do something will become more obvious. For many parents, in their eyes, their children's own decision-making or thinking is subject to recognized basic knowledge and their work experience, which makes them look quite naive, so they like to make decisions for their children immediately. But this mode of getting along will gradually polarize. One is that children are extremely dependent on their parents, and the other is.

Learn to relax and decide the initiative in this matter. As long as there is no serious injury involved, children can learn to make decisions and learn to be responsible. Only in this way can children grow up healthily and integrate into social reality more quickly.

2. Expression of self-identity

From the moment a child is born, the whole world sends him huge information, whether it is the basic common sense of life or the content used for learning, it has become the basis of a person's self-identity; With the improvement of the language system, the impulse to express things around you is further promoted. At this moment, learning to attach importance to children's self-views, ignoring blows and repression, is more conducive to let children learn to explore independently, rather than blindly relying on others and having no own views.

In the aspect of family education, learning a more independent and calm mode of getting along with each other and letting children express their ideas bravely can not only improve their self-esteem, but also make them participate more in the family, which is of great help to their future development and life.

3. Executive power

When many children choose to do something, parents usually like to "pour cold water" on their children early, and even reprimand them when they encounter problems on the way, feeling that it is their responsibility. Learning to let children bear the troubles and problems after behavior can not only make children grow up healthily, but also give them enough private space to deal with their own affairs. Shaping children's executive ability is of great value not only for study and training, but also for future workplace life. If you want a child to become a useful person, execution has always been a good and essential element.

According to experts and professors in Peking University, when children are 5-8 years old, their self-identity is gradually established, and their enthusiasm for exploring and acquiring the outside world is in a rich link. Learning to "indulge" children in the above three areas is more helpful for their growth!