There are many reasons why children don't fit in, which need us to understand deeply and take corrective and educational measures. This paper will analyze the causes of children's unsociable from different angles, and put forward corresponding correction methods to help children better integrate into the collective and establish healthy interpersonal relationships.

home environment

If the child lives alone for a long time, his parents have limited social skills and little contact with the outside world, and the child is not used to interacting with strangers, forming a withdrawn character. Parents can keep consistent with their children in their clothes, speech, manners and living habits, so as to reduce the discomfort caused by their uniqueness. At the same time, children are encouraged to invite friends to their homes, and parents should warmly entertain them and set an example for their children.

educational environment

If children are active at home, but silent in the group, it may be because children often get praise from their parents at home, but feel inferior to their peers in the group, thus losing self-confidence. Parents need to cooperate with teachers to discover and use a child's strengths and let him show it in the group. When children are praised by teachers and peers, they will enhance their self-confidence and get along with their peers more freely.

interpersonal communication

If children don't want to suffer when they get along with their peers, parents should set strict requirements on their children and create opportunities for them to play with friends. This will help children learn to live in harmony with their partners and build a deep friendship.