Generally speaking, it seems more difficult to educate boys than girls. In fact, this is just an illusion. It takes a lot of time and energy to educate both boys and girls. Once the wrong method is used, the child may develop in the opposite direction, which makes parents have a headache.

In recent years, there are more and more cases of juvenile delinquency. Why is the problem of boys' education getting more and more serious with the progress of the times?

Why are there more and more problem children?

1, more and more parents dote on their children.

When the living conditions are good, parents want to provide their children with a good life, ignoring the education of their children and unconditionally satisfying any wishes of their children. As a result, their children have developed an arrogant character and a "lawless" character. Because there is no bottom line principle, they are more likely to make mistakes.

2, too child-centered.

Now many families revolve around a child for six months. A child has parents, grandparents and grandparents. Children can easily develop "self-centeredness". If they are used to their daily tendencies, they will easily make mistakes.

3. Lack of friendship

When the living conditions are good, parents provide their children with high-quality material living conditions, but they seldom accompany their children, so the children develop a withdrawn character and easily become problem of juvenile.

Li Meijin, a child-rearing expert, graduated from Renmin University and is now a professor at People's Public Security University of China. He is a graduate tutor. Professor Li Meijin has been engaged in the research of juvenile criminal psychology for a long time and has rich experience in case investigation. He has a deep understanding of children and unique views on educating children, which is very popular with parents.

Professor Li Meijin has his own views on the education of boys. She believes that before 12 years old, boys should adhere to four principles, and when they grow up, they will be sunny, responsible and more likely to achieve something.

/kloc-boys between 0 and 2 years old, adhere to the four principles.

1, cultivate children's brave character

Boys and girls are different. Girls should pay attention to safety education, while boys should pay attention to "brave" education, let children try new things and cultivate the "brave" factor in their character.

If you want to cultivate children's brave character, you should show them more new things and let them try new things.

2. It is a good thing for boys to suffer more.

If boys want to be responsible in the future, they must suffer more from childhood. Don't be afraid of boys suffering. Boys are too spoiled and will be very fragile when they grow up.

3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility

Boys should pay special attention to the cultivation of sense of responsibility, so that children can become responsible men when they grow up. To cultivate boys' sense of responsibility, we should start from daily life. Mothers can "entrust" their children to do more things and let them help more, so that children will gradually feel responsible.

4. Cultivate children's independence

Boys should pay special attention to the cultivation of "independence". The sooner they become independent, the more helpful they will be.

Only by learning to be an independent child can you grow into a responsible and responsible man.

How to cultivate children's independence?

It is important to cultivate children's independence. Both boys and girls should pay attention to cultivating children's independence, because children will be independent of this social life sooner or later. Since it is necessary to be independent sooner or later, it is the greatest survival capital for children to have this skill earlier.

1, after 3 years old, you can consider housing allocation.

To cultivate children's independence, we can start with housing allocation. In many western countries, parents let their children sleep in a room after they are 3 years old, which helps to cultivate their independence.

If the child can't accept the housing allocation, then the housing allocation should be completed at the age of 6 at the latest.

2. Let the children tidy up their toys.

To cultivate children's independence, we should start with letting children organize their own toys. After 2 years old, children can develop this ability purposefully, and mothers can guide their children to organize their toys.

Education must run through every point of life. If you want to educate a good child, you should pay attention to every detail in your life, so as to cultivate an excellent child.