It is said that parents are children's first teachers, but unfortunately no one is born to be good parents and teachers.

Strange to say, all walks of life now have to hold certificates, but parents are the easiest occupation to get, and they can be employed without assessment. No matter what occupation you are engaged in, no matter whether you are rich or poor, even whether you are beautiful or ugly.

The story of "Three Movements in Meng Mu" tells us that environment makes people. Smart parents like Meng Mu are good at finding children's problems and giving them proper guidance, so that their children will become more and more outstanding and eventually become the pillars of the country.

And many ordinary parents can only be self-righteous and teach and help their children in the best way they think. "Crossing the river by feeling the stones" is a true portrayal of such parents. Unfortunately, I am one of them.

? From several aspects, taking ordinary parents and intelligent parents as examples, we are told how to be intelligent parents in the face of the same problem, different ways and different results.

1. Learn to appreciate children's characteristics and encourage children's characteristics to happen in suitable scenes, thus making children more confident.

2. Take time to communicate with children, accept their ideas and understand them.

Don't compare children with other children. Every child is a unique individual, and simple and one-sided comparison is unfair to children.

I am used to looking at children's growth from a long-term perspective, and I don't have to care about temporary gains and losses, but pay attention to cultivating children's potential. This marathon, which takes many years, may not be able to laugh at the end.

5. Create a safe space for children and guide them to ask quality questions.

6. Good education needs "blank space", giving children free space to play, imagine and think, and making them independent.

7. Good grades do not mean that all children have good abilities. Comprehensive ability, vitality, perseverance, personality, etc. Will affect the child's life.

8. Set an example, love life, constantly improve yourself and make yourself better, so as to influence children by setting an example.

Every child is an angel. We should actively guide him, accompany him with full love, help him with the patience of "walking with snails" and let him spend a happy childhood in happy days.