First, "let nature take its course" and "go your own way"
Many people understand that children should not put too much pressure on them, and everything should go with the flow. Then we always smile at our children and speak carefully, fearing that accidentally hurting their self-esteem and making them depressed will lead to unexpected things. After reading this part of Mr. Huang's content, I thought carefully that everything in a child's nature is really worth adapting to. They are selfish, lazy, hypocritical ... these bad qualities? Can children with these qualities be accepted by society in the future? The "essence" of education cannot be ignored. What is "of course"? "Of course" refers to criticism, agitation, rules and standards in education. Gao Ting once said: Habit, each of us is more or less its slave. Looking back on education career and looking at children's future, without these "of course", what kind of habits will children become slaves? Let's conform to children's nature and respect their hobbies. Let's do what their children do and let them win the future in nature.
Second, where should Chinese lead children?
Chinese discipline advocates Chinese literacy. What is Chinese literacy? Chinese literacy refers to the comprehensive evaluation of Chinese ability, Chinese knowledge, thoughts and feelings, language accumulation, language sense, thinking quality, moral cultivation, aesthetic taste, personality, learning direction and learning habits. What did we teach in class? What we teach is problem-solving skills, and what we teach is children's fixed thinking. We have trained generations of learning robots with civilized language. Children are life with temperature. Do they feel the temperature of life from the words? Have you ever felt the leap of life? Have you ever felt the interest of life? Don't! These feelings need to make children get rid of civilized language, walk into the vast sea of books, capture the author's casual moments, and calm down to talk with words in order to feel the beauty of life.
? Education is not only teaching, but also education. Doesn't the sentence "plant trees for ten years and educate people for a hundred years" explain the mission and responsibility of education? Let's walk out of "short-sighted education for quick success and instant benefit" and give him a long-term vision of seeing only trees but not forests.