Parents' experience in kindergarten education 1. Understand the needs of parents and try to provide them with practical help in good interaction.
It is the children whose parents work. In order to gain parents' understanding and support, we must first solve the problem of parents' concern for children and try our best to provide practical help for children in good interaction. In order to let parents know their children's situation in kindergarten regularly, we set up an interactive platform at the door of the class and designed a children's record. In the garden at home? Although the form of expression is small, we have more communication words through teachers' records and parents' feedback. Parents have feedback on our work, on how children learn through kindergarten, on how children express themselves at home or find out what problems their behavior habits have, and so on. Parents are willing to tell us in time. When parents ask us about the methods of family education or have doubts about children's performance, we will try our best to answer them, so that parents can better understand their children's development, actively strive for the coordinated development of their families and promote their healthy growth. For example, in communication and understanding, many parents report that they don't know how to cultivate their children's habits at home; Some parents are more concerned about how to cultivate their children's computing ability and so on. In view of these situations, at the end of the semester, we held a special discussion around the issues that parents are generally concerned about and concerned about? How to make children live a good summer vacation? .
Second, in? Parental notes? Find the child's bright spot in time and give attention and praise.
Holidays are more important than semesters. Indeed, when the holidays come, there will be more opportunities to visit relatives and friends, which is also a good opportunity to teach children manners and love labor. To this end, I organized and carried out? Parental notes? Encouraging parents to record their children's performance at home in time can not only let teachers know about their children's holiday life, but also promote parents' attention and education of their children at home.
Third, we should pay attention to the skills of communication with parents, so that parents can feel that teachers are serious and responsible for their work.
There are many class activities now. In order to make effective use of parents' resources, parents need to be encouraged and guided to make suggestions and actively participate. After each activity, you should give feedback to your parents in time and thank them for their strong support. I remember that my parents actively participated in an environmental arrangement activity to welcome the New Year, so I specially wrote a thank-you letter to my parents. With such good interaction, any activity will be smoother. In daily communication with parents, teachers should be able to vividly describe the lovely performance of children in a certain part of kindergarten, and parents will naturally feel your concern and love for children from your words. In individual communication, parents' casual questions or suggestions will reveal their demands or opinions on teachers. Teachers should attach importance to parents' understatement, be good at capturing parents' opinions and demands, deal with related matters seriously and give timely feedback. Then, whether parents really downplay or talk with doubts, they will truly feel your serious and responsible work attitude and lay a good foundation for their future work.
In addition, be good at communicating with grandparents. Nowadays, young parents are either too busy to take care of their children, or grandparents take most of the responsibility of raising their children in order to make them concentrate on their work. Some children spend much longer time in contact with grandparents than their parents. So? Ancestor education? It also played an important role that cannot be ignored. Therefore, we should also pay attention to the work of parents in this regard. When sending children to and from the garden, we should also take the initiative to communicate with grandparents so that they can feel the sincerity of the teacher. Of course, you should pay attention to your tone when reflecting the problem and try to be tactful.
Parents' kindergarten education experience can cultivate children's good reading habits, and children can benefit for life. The method is as follows:
First, let children contact books in infancy. Put books in all areas of children's lives and read them to them. Let children hear and read books every day, and form an understanding that life and books are inseparable.
Second, take books as necessary luggage when you go out. Every time you go out, no matter where you go, you should bring books to the baby. Older children remind that it is a habit to bring books.
Third, parents set an example and often read aloud in front of their children. Strengthen children's understanding of the importance of reading.
Educational filial piety
1) Set an example by yourself, be filial to your elders and set an example for your children.
2) Tell filial piety stories to children. If you can't talk, buy a disc for your child. Play it at home every day to familiarize children.
3) Buy filial piety books for children. When you are away from home, take books as essential items. Another unexpected gain is that children's reading ability has also been improved.
Parents' kindergarten education experience 1. Teachers should pay attention to the language art of communicating with parents.
After the children enter the park, parents will hear the teacher's evaluation of the children from time to time. Children sometimes behave well and sometimes make a little mistake. Some teachers don't seem to see the advantages of their children when reporting their own situation to their parents. They always complain to their parents that their children are neither this nor that. This is often difficult for parents to accept. As a teacher, parents should be informed objectively about their children's situation in kindergarten, and should not be mixed with subjective colors and emotions. Teachers should communicate with parents in a calm tone, a euphemistic attitude and a divided view. You can introduce some children's advantages to parents first, and then talk about your own shortcomings or areas that need to be corrected, so that parents can easily accept them.
Second, teachers should patiently guide parents to use scientific parenting methods.
Many parents don't know how to educate their children because they don't understand their age characteristics. Sometimes the way to educate children is inappropriate, blindly doting and even conniving. Teachers are professionals with certain knowledge of parenting. When encountering problems, parents should be inspired and guided in various ways, so that they can understand their children's physical and mental characteristics, update their educational concepts and master the correct parenting methods. Have you ever met a parent who complained to me? Teacher, our children are so headstrong that they insist on eating bean skin every morning. It's no use beating him and scolding him. It's no use asking me to buy another bowl this morning. ? I tell my family first: Eating breakfast every morning will not only hinder children's health, but also cause children's partial eclipse; Introduce the nutritional configuration of kindergarten breakfast to parents; Let parents know that having breakfast with other children every day can strengthen children's collective consciousness; Parents are advised to tell their children these benefits in easy-to-understand language, and the effect is definitely much better than that of beating and cursing. My parents learned the right parenting knowledge from me and changed the way of education in time. At the same time, I learned more about this child and distanced myself from this parent.
Third, teachers should be based on? Transposition? The way of thinking communicates with parents.
Now kindergarten teachers are younger, and many teachers have never experienced the role of parents. Even if you are a mother, it is often difficult to reach a consensus when communicating with parents, which requires teachers to understand the role of parents and understand their feelings and needs from the role of parents. Children are sometimes scratched on their hands or heads in group activities. To be sure, parents are very surprised and heartbroken when they pick up their children. But some teachers act as if nothing has happened and think that parents are making a fuss. Then, a small incident will immediately make parents feel that teachers don't care about their children and are not responsible for their own work, which will affect the relationship between parents and teachers and set obstacles for family communication. If the teacher cares about the child from the role of the child's parents, or thinks from another angle, if the injured child is his own child, he will naturally understand the mood of the parents and his attitude will be very different. Then home communication will not be blocked.
Fourth, teachers should communicate with parents through multiple channels and ways.
1, parent committee
Teachers should give full play to the role of parent committee. For large-scale family cooperative education activities in kindergartens, representatives of parents' committees can be invited to participate in making plans and jointly organize their implementation. You can also really understand the parents' voices through the parents' committee.
2. Visiting teachers
Through investigation, many parents are of high quality and have the desire and ability to participate in kindergarten activities. We might as well use children as an intermediary to let parents sign up voluntarily, and then choose parents with relevant knowledge and ability to prepare lessons together according to the content of the activity to ensure the quality. Visiting teachers provides an opportunity for teachers and parents, parents and parents to exchange experiences and share resources. Teachers get help from their parents' professional knowledge and life experience, and parents get educational experience and skills from teachers, so they know more about their work. Children also feel cordial during the activities.
3. Parents' Debate
In the past, parents' meetings were mainly taught by teachers, and parents were not interested. We can change the old form and turn the parent-teacher conference into a family education debate. The teacher gave several most representative examples of children in the class, mainly parents, so that parents could analyze and discuss and express their opinions. In the fierce debate, parents update their educational concepts, reflect on their educational behavior by comparing examples, and become interested in learning and participating in various educational activities. After the parents have finished speaking, teachers will express their views, show their views and introduce their experiences in a targeted manner, which will get twice the result with half the effort.
4. Parents' Garden
Parents' Garden is an important window for kindergarten to communicate with parents. Teachers seem to have become accustomed to using more thoughts to design columns and find content, while ignoring the depth and breadth of parents' participation. Why don't we prepare a small world and invite parents to the parents' garden? Like what? Praise the baby? The column can write about the performance of children at home; ? My parenting experience? Let parents speak freely; ? My problem? You can write down your parents' confusion and so on. Parents' garden can't be sung by teachers alone? One-man show should arouse parents' interest and actively participate, and build a colorful bridge for communication between teachers and parents.
5, home coeducational bag
We can prepare a family bag for each child. Every week, we will put all the contents and works our children have learned in our schoolbags. We can also record the children's situation in the park, teaching contents and places where parents need help in our schoolbags at any time. Because the schoolbag contains children's grades, parents will be happy to take it home every weekend and take it to kindergarten on Monday. In addition, parents' opinions and demands on teachers' work can also be written down and put into a bag to help teachers improve their work. Family education package allows busy parents to know more about their children's development, and silent communication promotes communication between teachers and parents.
6. Personalized home communication
Because of the differences in each child's personality; Different family environment; With the difference of parents' cultural quality, many usual exchanges are personalized. Personalized family communication methods include home visits, interviews, family contact books, telephone calls, notes, conversations when picking up children, etc. Now, many kindergartens are connected to broadband network, which realizes the communication between classes, which further broadens the communication channels and makes online conversation very convenient. Personalized communication should aim at the different problems of each child and the educational problems of different parents, with the aim of promoting the physical and mental development of each child.