This story happened in France in the 18th and 9th centuries, which is similar to the social background of Eugenie Grandet. The whole society is full of deception, vanity, glitz and luxury. People all hope to enter the upper class through the relationship of some famous families, so as to gain some vanity and satisfaction, but at the expense of the interests of others, or even pay a heavier price. Gao Laotou is one of a series of typical figures created by Balzac. The feudal patriarchal ideology was defeated by the bourgeois moral principle of money supremacy, which is a microcosm of historical tragedy. Lao Gaoman was a flour merchant who made a lot of money selling flour during the revolution. When his daughter got married, he gave 600,000 to 700,000 yuan, and he only left 500,000 to 600,000 yuan for the elderly. As the years passed, the two daughters gradually became disgusted with their father and drove him out of their circle. They are ashamed of their father and hope that his father will die soon, but on the surface they say all kinds of excuses to comfort him. They are like a juice straw, sucking up their father and rushing to throw away the leftovers. The child was brought up by his parents, and Lao Gaoman looked at what his daughter had done. The poor old man is so disappointed and lonely that he can be said to be heartbroken. But no matter what the daughter does and how she disappoints him again and again, the father's love is eternal. When he heard that his daughter was in debt outside, he would rather sell his most precious silver jewelry to pay off the debt than let her worry about it. That silver ornament is his most valuable thing! After the sale, he did cry, but he didn't do it in exchange for his daughter's heart. You Na Rasty is a college student. At the beginning, he had a good impression, knowledge, education, extraordinary courage and enviable appearance capital. He always wanted to take a shortcut to realize his dream of entering the upper class, but he sacrificed his parents' hard work and used their money to have fun, make relationships and make friends. He always believes that relying on women's property to realize his dreams is the best policy. But when he really entered the upper class, especially after interacting with his old daughter, he found that the upper class was not as beautiful as he imagined, and there were some unknown things hidden behind the glitz and luxury. A seemingly arrogant lady secretly has to endure her husband's insult, manipulation, neglect, control and abandonment. All their property and dowry are controlled by their husbands, but in order to show her arrogance and enjoy enviable honor and dignity, she has to borrow money everywhere to make up for her inner emptiness. The basic characteristics of love in Paris are flattery, shamelessness, profligacy and cajoling. Finally, he was moved by the old and simple love, and finally he felt competitive with the whole society.

Lao Gaoman is a declining businessman. He loves his daughter as much as his own life. He regards his two daughters as his darling and mistress. He pays their debts and meets all their needs, both reasonable and unreasonable. He thinks that this can bind his daughter and get their respect and filial piety in the future. But when their son-in-law learned that he had nothing, he began to hate him, ridicule him and abandon him. Because he has no use value and nothing to give, it will only embarrass them, so the two daughters have to listen to their husbands' opinions. Lao Gaoman suffered humiliation all his life, resigned himself to it, and nobody cared. His greatest wish is to get his daughter's approval and interview, but these are all because money can't be realized. He hates that he can't be rich forever, so that he can tighten the rope that binds his daughter. Neither daughter went to see their father until Lao Gaoman died. Lao Gaoman would rather give his life for his two daughters. Is there a greater emotion in the world? How great and admirable it was in that social atmosphere at that time. Before he died, he had to say, "I love them. They repay good for evil and torture me like executioners." Unfortunately, the old man's excessive persistence made him realize the essence of society on the day he died, but what's wrong with a father loving his daughter? In such a society, people become slaves of materials and captives of money, and some despicable feelings of indifference, indifference, ridicule and disloyalty are derived. There is no real emotion between people, and all emotions are superficial, deceptive, grandiose and self-deceiving. There was a passage in the book: Rusty Neck was lucky enough to be invited to a dance by the Duchess because of his so-called brother-sister relationship with Madame Bossian. At the ball, he met the elegant and beautiful Mrs. Newchingen, the second daughter of Laogaoman-Telfenna. Rasty Neck really saw at the ball what is noble, what is gorgeous and rich ... He talked with Mrs. Newchingen for more than two hours, and seemed to feel that he had climbed the ladder of the upper class. He felt that he was above it. Just when he was proud, he knocked on the old door. When he saw the bleak scenery in the room, a chill woke him up: the room was dilapidated: there were no curtains on the windows, and there was only a thin cotton blanket on the bed, which was made of Mrs. Vogue's old long skirt. The cupboard has been painted, there is no cupboard door, and there is an old straw hat on the deformed desk. This cold room looks heartbreaking, just like a miserable prison. What you can't imagine is that this "home" is the residence of the fathers of two noble ladies, which is in sharp contrast with the luxurious, gorgeous and decent life of princes and nobles! High old man saw Rasty snake, quickly asked him about his two daughters, and asked them what they thought of themselves. Rasty snake looked at the kind old man, really think he is ridiculous, poor! His daughter is used to living a decent and luxurious life, and has long forgotten this old father who misses her all day. Can he tell the truth at this time? Can you break the poor old man's heart again? His nose was sour and he choked back his tears and made up some words to comfort him. His voice is very low. When he looked up at Lao Gaoman, he found himself radiant and excited. What can he say? This nice guy is usually teased and laughed at by others. Do you want him to know that he is so small and worthless in the eyes of his daughters, and he has become a thorn in their side, so that his only hope and relief will go with him? Let him feel a little dignity in front of his daughter become a shame? Even a man with a heart of stone will shed tears when he sees such a father and his great fatherly love! He thought it was cheating him, but it was a beautiful lie. It is a college student's infinite respect and understanding for the elderly. Finally, Lao Gaoman became ill. Poor him, his last moan became "Please, let me see my daughter!" " As long as I see them, my illness will be fine, please ... "These heartfelt words are so simple, but full of love and expectation for my daughter. The illness made him tremble and unconscious. But when he was in a coma, he shouted affectionately: "Anastasi, Telfina (the names of two daughters)!" " "His love for his daughter infected the people around him, but it could not melt the cold hearts of his two daughters. It was not until his death that the two daughters came to their father and said goodbye to him. But he left regardless of his father's funeral. The death ceremony of an old man is the simplest, poorest and most monotonous. Only the poorest people are such rituals: only sadness and joy are ringing. But he is the father of two noble families! Can't this dead soul rest in peace after ascending to heaven? (He) is also from God! Lao Gaoman just left. I hope the suffering and loneliness of the world can stay and let him live in heaven for a few days! Some people say that the old and tall daughter is disgusting. But I think, if Lao Gaoman's love for her daughter is transformed into education rather than doting, then her daughter should know how to cherish her father's love, be kind and treat others sincerely now. However, many people ignore one thing, that is, can a kind-hearted and talented person stand firm in the upper class? At that time, especially in Paris, which seems to be full of waves and murderous look, the article quoted a young woman as saying that "kindness and purity are the deadly killers of the upper class." If you want to gain a foothold in the upper class, you must learn to look at what you say, and never write everything on your face. You must seize power and fight for money before others can take refuge in you. After reading this paragraph, you may think that the young woman's words were too serious, but that was the case at the time. A successful person, in essence, is the one who wins the decisive battle between power and money. Such a person must be ruthless. I can't help thinking: in that era, how many kind people will be used and trampled by the nobility, so that he learned to keep a straight face, hold hands and shoot. Their essential goodness will be buried deep in their hearts and cannot be volatilized. In the final analysis, it should be this society, this social trend, that destroyed the people of Paris at that time. The experience of being old and tall is the true epitome of many people in society at that time. I believe that anyone who has finished reading this book can't help but admire: how can there be such a hateful daughter? How can you have such a stupid father? Two daughters love money more than their fathers, telling us the tragedy that fathers love daughters and daughters love money. Objectively speaking, times make people. In that era when money is paramount, who can not love money? One by one for money, intrigue, you fight with me, tell us that people are colder and more ruthless from generation to generation. Tears, tears of condemnation, tears of sadness, tears of hatred, tears of desolation ... May the old tragedy never repeat itself.