In fact, I am familiar with this sentence. I have made careful observation and in-depth thinking:
If it is limited to chatting between teachers to release the pressure and helplessness of work, it just ignores the initiative, effectiveness and responsibility of teachers' own education and exaggerates the limited role of education, but it contains one-sided and negative emotions after all; After teachers' emotions have calmed down, they should still put their enthusiasm into education.
If this sentence is solemnly and mysteriously said to aspiring students, and it is also strongly inspiring, with the purpose of awakening students' enthusiasm, initiative, consciousness, self-control and the ability to manage their own time, so as to realize their own successful experience, then it fully embodies the teachers' alertness and love, and of course it should be actively advocated.
The key to "a hundred things in one word" is to choose a good context, which is the wisdom of human beings!
If this sentence is told by the teacher to the parents, don't say it casually, it is very important to fully understand the interviewee; If you are not completely sure, you'd better not say it, because saying this to parents not only has the intention of shirking educational responsibility, but also has no intention of hitting parents' initiative, enthusiasm and self-confidence in educating their children, which is likely to cause resentment among some parents.
"Don't take care of the children, it's not a good boy who is in charge."
If this sentence is said secretly between husband and wife, it is reasonable to face up to the differences in children's talents, and in order to teach children in accordance with their aptitude, don't run on children too much in words and deeds, which shows parents' understanding and courtesy;
If this sentence is meant for children, it is also a very correct and clever move to encourage children's initiative, consciousness and self-control in learning.
Dehong mainly refers to the noble ideology and morality, and the outlook on life and values conform to the mainstream of society and spiritual civilization.
"Management", that is, education, enlightenment, indoctrination, seduction and brainwashing, is still very prominent in the role and effect of "Dehong".
For example, family education and school education have obvious influence on teenagers' ideology and morality; The enlightenment and indoctrination of Confucianism greatly promoted the formation of people's concept of loyalty and filial piety; The brainwashing power of Christianity, Buddhism and other religions can make very smart people form firm religious beliefs. ...
Dehong really needs "management"! It is concluded that the education that touches the soul is the most successful education!
Talent and expertise mainly refer to excellent knowledge and ability, with outstanding skills to serve the society and benefit mankind.
"Management" is obviously limited to "talent and specialization". Talent is the material basis and decisive factor of success. People with poor understanding, parents and teachers, no matter how strict you are, it is difficult for this external cause to educate people who are naturally dull into very good people.
Confucius, the greatest educator, "three thousand disciples", only cultivated "seventy-two sages", which is also the same reason. This is also the basis of the sentence "A good boy doesn't have to take care of it, but he is not a good boy if he takes care of it".
Talent mainly lies in self, talent, understanding and quality; Teachers' main functions are to explore, inspire, motivate, lead, serve, correct mistakes and help students develop their potential. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door, and the practice depends on the individual."
In front of children, never say that your success and others' success are due to how smart you are, but try to exaggerate how hard you work.
Always tell your child that if you study more, you will find a happy angel coming to you.