The first view is to raise children to prevent old age. In our traditional culture, raising children is still for ourselves. When you get old, you lose your labor force and rely on your children to provide for the elderly. Then pass it on from generation to generation. Once there is no pension phenomenon, you will be condemned by the society and say that you are disobedient and unfilial. Therefore, from the birth of a child, receiving this education is to honor parents.
Filial piety is an excellent virtue of the Chinese nation, and our culture is one of the foundations of 5,000 years.
The second point is that children come to collect debts. This view is also very common, because family relationships are not easy to handle at ordinary times. Mainly because there are many children. If there are more than two children, there will be contradictions, and parents will think that you are good and I am bad, which will affect their attitude towards their parents. As long as there are contradictions, parents usually complain. I raised you with a handful of shit and urine, and I didn't take out my intestines when I gave you my heart. Because of the intensification of contradictions, it is difficult for others to intervene, and it is said that it is difficult for honest officials to break housework. Therefore, raising children only pays, and there is no return. You didn't owe him in your last life, but you will collect debts in this life.
Third, children are a by-product of happiness. In the opinion of public opinion, pregnancy is very difficult, and you can't live if you want to live. In fact, most people don't have this problem, they all win the prize unintentionally, which is really easy. Ask people around you, who is not a contraceptive failure? The feeling of wanting children can be understood like this. Being pregnant with what you don't want is contradictory to what you want.
My attitude towards raising children is regarded as an obligation and an obligation to society. If you give birth to him, you should take good care of him. At the age of 18, you have civil rights. You won't expect your children to support you if you fight the world alone. It is right to say that children are the hope of parents and the continuation of life. Of course, it is perfect to reach this level. If you can't do it, you will even be disappointed. Don't be sad. Because the only purpose of raising a child is to raise him. As for how he will treat his parents in the future, it depends on fate. Filial piety is human, unfilial is duty, there is no right or wrong.