First of all, parents should be clear about the responsibility of educating their children. Family education is lifelong, school education is temporary, and primary education has the greatest influence on children. Some parents always think that the school should be responsible for sending their children to school, regardless of their physical and mental development or the cultivation of behavior habits, and rarely or never ask their children about their behavior at school. What's more, the responsibility for children's education is pushed to the school. We should know that parents are the implementers of family education, the first teacher of children and the cradle of children's growth; Parents' words, deeds and attitudes are affecting the development of children's behavior habits. Secondly, parents should make it clear that in the education of their children, they must be strict with love and strike hard, and love their children scientifically. In the attitude towards children's education, some parents are too strict with their children and reprimand them for their mistakes; Some parents are obedient to their children's bad behaviors and unreasonable demands, unprincipled accommodation and excessive indulgence will make their children form bad behaviors and habits. You know, love can't replace education, and strict requirements are the embodiment of love. As Rousseau, a French educator, said, "Some people are too strict, while others are too accommodating. Both situations should be avoided. " Thirdly, parents should establish a correct view of education, not only focusing on knowledge, but also ignoring the development of individual behavior. Some parents send their children to school, only caring about how much knowledge they have learned, but never asking about their behavior, even reflecting their shortcomings to teachers, and never delving into the reasons. They only like teachers to report "happiness" instead of "worry". Over time, children form bad behavior habits. 2. Actively cooperate and keep pace with school education. First of all, parents should closely and actively cooperate with the class teacher to implement the education plan, correctly request and teach their children, create conditions to promote family education and school education, and consolidate educational achievements. For example, parents should have the same requirements for children's life and study, give them clear living standards and cultivate their good habits. Secondly, parents should contact and actively communicate with the teachers in the class, not only to understand the children's situation at school, but also to reflect the students' performance at home to the teachers, coordinate and cooperate together, and praise or correct the children's advantages and disadvantages in time. 3. Actively participate in the parents' activities of the school and attach importance to the contact between home and school. Parents actively participate in all kinds of parents' open days held by the school and pay attention to contact the class teacher in time, which can not only understand the children's behavior and development in all aspects, but also meet their psychological needs. In addition, parents must arm themselves with theoretical knowledge of education, improve their education level and give full play to the effectiveness of family education. In short, as long as parents adhere to the principle of paying equal attention to family education and school education and form a joint educational effort in the same direction, they can get twice the result with half the effort in cultivating students' good behavior habits.