There is such a sentence? Your excessive expectation of children is actually a kind of harm? This sentence resonated with many people. Every child's psychological problems are the reflection of parents' education. The higher their expectations, the easier it is for parents to control and force their children, and the child's mentality will gradually distort. Many parents pay attention to their children's physical health, but often ignore their physical and mental health. Most parents think that the best material condition for children to eat and wear warm clothes is to be good to their children, while ignoring their psychological needs.

In the video released by a woman in Fuyang, Anhui Province, she came home late, and her children were hungry. She tried to make a surprise move and put the cake on the kettle to eat. The two children are still young, but they can find ways to meet their own needs. Although they have seen adults steaming steamed buns in a pot, they are short and can't reach the pot, so it is also a way to choose a kettle as the next best thing. For a 9-year-old child to come up with this method, everyone thinks that this child is very smart, but some netizens suggest that the woman had better prepare some snacks at home. After all, there are security risks for children to cook alone. But it is also because of the parents' big heart that the children's potential is stimulated.

The bigger the parents' heart, the healthier the children's psychology. From the perspective of children's psychology, parents who are prone to anxiety are often more perfectionist, which will make children fall into negative emotions that can never satisfy their parents. The more worried parents are, the easier it is to hinder their children's progress. Once parents expect too much, it is easy to put pressure on their children, make them lose their vitality prematurely, and it is easy to raise children with psychological defects. Just like educating children, parents should not be too impatient. If they keep their children blindly, it will easily lead to a vicious circle in which the monthly salary level is getting worse and worse.

As parents, we should not encourage our children, but provide them with a platform and opportunities. Open-minded education is a sign that children begin to get better, but we can't turn a blind eye to all children's behaviors and don't let themselves go. Parents have bigger hearts, so they don't need to be perfect in everything. Every child has his own bright spot. Only by fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses can education promote children's growth. Only by respecting children's growth and treating their lives with tolerance can we have a perfect family.