Experience is a good thing, just like playing games. You watched it for three days and two nights, just looking at some superficial problems. You will never feel the immersion of that game unless you operate it again. The baby's growth is also developed through constant experience.

When a child falls, parents in China and western countries do things differently, and their children's growth is totally different.

We have heard an example around us. In China, when a child falls, parents will immediately go forward and pick up the child to see if the child falls, and then pat the dirt on his body. Some parents told their children that it was all the fault of the stone. Come on, kick it! When a western child falls down, watch from the sidelines and encourage him to stand up and tell the child calmly that next time, children who grow up under these two educational methods will also form two completely different personalities and ways of doing things. Through this example, people can intuitively see the difference between western education and China education.

When the baby can't express himself, he will touch everything he can through his hands and mouth, and he will experience cold, hot, soft, hard, sour, sweet, salty and bitter touches.

When the baby gets older and goes down the stairs for the first time, the baby can't immediately evaluate the height and angle of the next step. Usually he will be afraid, seek the help of his parents, and stand in the same place carefully until his parents come home. The parents came to the front, and the baby's feet reached the next step. At this time, he stopped crying and looked at his parents, indicating that he didn't have to come over. I have found my feelings. Kexin Parenting said that such a simple action is also a fragment of the baby's experience. He has mastered a new skill and will also bring him pleasure.

How should parents deal with their baby's self-experience?

Let the child do what he can, as long as he is safe. This kind of experience can only be felt by himself, but not by his parents. If the baby needs help, give him the necessary help.

The fact is that after a child falls, it is a life experience. If you help your child up, you will form bad habits and think that your crying has played a role. The next time you fall, you will cry to help, so that children will not realize that the responsibility for falling is "I", and that "I" can stand up after falling, and there is no process of getting up after falling. When children encounter difficulties, they will shirk their responsibilities and not try to solve the problem. If parents let their children experience it by themselves, they can feel the pain of falling and the joy of getting up again, reminding themselves not to "repeat the same mistakes" next time. For children, it is a very precious experience to come back after setbacks. If the child falls heavily, or the child is depressed, parents should provide necessary help, and don't let the child go through too much trouble, so as not to cause the shadow to linger.

For children, the process of growing up is made up of little experiences. Parents need to let their children try to experience themselves more, so that children can have a better self-awareness and get a healthy growth process.

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