Carry out frustration education, but frustration education like this may also be a blow to children's personality or some self-esteem when giving them such an education method. And for children, they are particularly insecure when they are very young. Even many times, they are curious about what they should do or the right way to do it, or they don't have a comprehensive understanding of many things.
There is no comprehensive understanding, so for them, many things can't be solved by their own strength, or many times parents have to play the role of a guide in the process of their children's growth. It is a frustrating education to guide children's growth instead of leaving all things or problems to children to face, although for many parents, they will think that some American or foreign parents will choose this way to let their children solve problems themselves at a very young age.
The corresponding teaching or supervision depends on what kind of environment, because in a big environment like China, most children were also taught or urged by their parents when they were young. Only in this way can children achieve better academic performance or have better development. If children are always required by this kind of frustration education, they are likely to become swayed by considerations of gain and loss, even more insecure, or think that their parents don't love themselves very much.