This principle also applies to the cultivation and stimulation of children's internal drive. If you want your child to study hard, you must describe to him the wonderful world that belongs to him in the future, and constantly strengthen it, so that children will have a deep-rooted desire for it, and naturally study hard and bravely pursue their own future.
There are always parents who complain that their children lack motivation and binding force in their studies, and they don't know how to cultivate their internal drive, so that they can study hard under the influence of internal drive.
Every time this happens, I feel happy and pity. First of all, parents can realize that it is necessary to cultivate their children's internal drive, which shows that their educational awareness is relatively high. However, if they reflect on this problem now, it means that their children have missed the golden period of the earliest internal drive training. At this time, it is bound to be relatively difficult to adjust, because it is not formed on the initial white paper, but cultivated while correcting, which will be even more difficult.
However, as for how to cultivate children's internal drive, we must be clear that every child is unique, so there is no exactly the same method. On the practical issue of how to cultivate children's internal drive, we need to analyze specific problems and determine effective ways for each child to cultivate internal drive.
But in general, to discover and cultivate children's learning internal drive is mainly to create internal conditions, combine external factors and information stimulation, build children's own learning internal drive, and let children restrain themselves from studying hard under the action of internal drive.
In every child's heart, there is an internal driving force, hoping to be shaped into an individual to achieve a certain goal. How to find and determine this factor in the process of achieving this goal, and activate it to shape it into an individual's internal drive, so as to promote it to achieve its goal driven by this internal drive, the most important thing is that parents should be good at observing and fully understanding their children.
By creating certain environment and conditions, we can determine children's real interests and concerns, and then according to children's specific conditions, we can determine the appropriate ways and methods of children's own internalization, establish children's internal drive, ensure that there are certain external stimuli and information in the process of achieving the goal, and keep children's internal drive stable and effective until the goal is completed.
There are all kinds of external stimuli and information, which may be a sentence, a picture, a story, etc. There is no standard answer, as long as it can touch the child's heart, it is enough to promote the child to form an internal driving force.
Therefore, in the process of children's growth, parents must be good at observing and understanding their children, find their worries as soon as possible, and describe them as their desires. The internal drive that broke out under this desire will make children consciously develop in a better direction.