Sex education is an indispensable thing for children, but blind and purposeful education will only make children have a wrong understanding of sex, so what should be paid attention to in the process of sex education?

What should we pay attention to in sex education?

1, the early principle

Family sex education as soon as possible, especially the self-protection awareness of girls, should be instilled as soon as possible. Sex education before puberty can reduce children's embarrassment and impulsiveness.

Step by step

According to the characteristics of children's physical and psychological development, according to their acceptance and maturity, education in stages is the only process to cultivate children's outlook on life and sexual values.

3. Flexible education

Do not seriously carry out tough "education" for children. You should integrate relevant knowledge and ideas into your daily life and "infiltrate" your ideas to your children unconsciously.

4, for the purpose of personality shaping.

Sex education is not only to avoid being hurt, but the ultimate goal is to educate children into healthy people. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen self-esteem and responsibility education, so that children can identify what they can and cannot do and have the ability to control it.

5. Clear instinct

Children should be made to understand that everyone has sexual desire. Some physiological and psychological reactions are normal. This can make some children in early adolescence reduce the anxiety and fear caused by sexual physiological development.

Correct practice of children's sex education

1, parents should handle the relationship between the two parties and the baby. In addition to paying attention to the attitude towards the baby, the relationship between parents will also have a profound impact on the baby. If the relationship between parents is tense, the baby can easily become the object of anger and resentment from one or both parents. Because the baby is too young, lacks social experience and lacks the ability to correctly judge the cause of things, he often blames himself for the bad relationship between his parents, thus planting the root seedlings of self-blame. When the baby grows up, it will form personality characteristics such as self-distrust, cowardice, weak personality and behavioral withdrawal, or be locked in the heart, depressed, and even commit suicide because it can't bear the pressure of self-guilt. Therefore, parents must deal with each other's relationship and give their baby a warm and happy family environment, so as not to cause all kinds of psychological harm to the baby.

2. Same-sex parents and opposite-sex parents should play a good role. Same-sex parents are role models for the formation of baby's gender consciousness, while opposite-sex parents are role models for the baby to learn and get along with the opposite sex, which plays an important role in the baby's growth. Therefore, both mom and dad should actively cooperate to raise the baby together and give the baby a good growth environment. When the baby is sensible, parents of the opposite sex must pay attention to the discretion when getting along with the baby, and don't be too close, so as not to cause the baby to form an imperfect personality.

3. Let the baby learn to love his body in daily care. As soon as a child is born, he will experience the world around him with his own senses. In the process of feeding the baby, parents' proper behavior can make the baby realize that he is being cared for and learn to respect and care for his body.