1, teach children to put themselves in others' shoes. When a child quarrels or conflicts with others, parents can teach the child to look at the problem from the perspective of others, so that the child can put himself in the other's shoes and think about the problem from the perspective of others. In this way, children can not only get to know others, but also win friendship. Parents should educate their children to ask themselves often: "What would I think if I were in this situation?" ? What would you do? ""What should I do for him now? Will he feel better? "In this way, children can often see the other side of the problem, thus developing their tolerant character.

2. Encourage children to interact with others. Only by constantly interacting with others can children find that everyone has shortcomings and makes mistakes, and then they can tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others and be more tolerant and understanding of others. Only in this way can they get along with others. Only through communication can children experience the happiness of tolerating others, such as treating others' shortcomings with a tolerant attitude, forgiving and understanding others' mistakes, and helping people in trouble.

3. Set an example of tolerance for children. The main source of children's tolerance is their parents. Only tolerant parents can cultivate tolerant children. Let children learn to be tolerant. Parents should first have the quality of tolerance. In the face of contradictions or conflicts, be generous, regardless of gains and losses, high-profile, not afraid of losses, tolerant of others, so that children can be edified and educated, and children can tolerate others at corresponding times.

4. To guide children to learn to forget, a famous psychologist once said, "Forgetting is a beautiful life." Parents should pay attention to guiding their children to turn hostilities into friendship, forget others' offenses and nitpicking as soon as possible, forget the anguish and frustration they have encountered, forget the misunderstandings and resentment in their hearts ... put unpleasant things behind them as soon as possible and stride into this beautiful life.

5. Tolerance and understanding are one of the noblest virtues of human beings, which embodies a person's noble personality; Tolerance is the spring breeze blowing in people's hearts, which can melt the hard ice condensed in people's hearts; Tolerance is like a pen full of thoughts and feelings, which can erase the grievances in the chest and build a golden bridge of friendship between two hearts.