I don't know where to start. In my parents' circle of friends, I began to screen "Happy Education". Its main purpose is to let children learn in happiness, thinking that children learn more efficiently in a happy atmosphere, and then reduce the burden in action.

So we will see that primary school is so relaxed, there is no self-study in the morning and evening, and we go home from school very early; The math class in the lower grades is cancelled, and the English college entrance examination is not taken; Children should always praise and criticize, and don't embarrass them. Children only need to study happily, but can such happy education really make children learn well?

Whether it is or not, learning in a relaxed and happy environment is good for children, but happy learning does not mean indulging children in play, otherwise it will bring two major disadvantages.

1, children learn too much.

It is the truth of most students that there is no motivation without pressure. Without the supervision of teachers and parents, it is difficult for children to have a correct attitude towards learning. In the long run, children will only indulge in learning too much.

"Strict teachers make excellent students" is very correct. Teachers are strict with students, not deliberately making things difficult, but trying to get students to get rid of bad habits in their studies, encouraging you to study harder and guard against arrogance and rashness. This is the foundation of learning.

The essence of happy education is to let children find the fun of learning and enjoy it. Appropriate burden reduction is conducive to stimulating students' interest in learning, but it is not just for children to have fun in learning. Parents need to understand this.

The child's temper is too arrogant.

In the past, once a student made a mistake, the lightest punishment was criticism, unlike today's children who dare not fight or scold, saying that they should safeguard their self-esteem. Of course, we are not advocating corporal punishment and scolding children here, but some problems are irrelevant. Children basically go in one ear and out the other, and there is nothing in their hearts.

Or the current educational concept is too spoiled for children, for fear that words will have any impact on their psychology.

But in fact, children are far from as fragile as we thought. And even if you didn't educate your children well when they were young, society will help you educate them well.

As the old saying goes, there is a road to diligence in Shushan, and there is no end to learning from the sea. Diligence and hard work, most people are reluctant to touch, because it is difficult to persist, but as long as you have suffered, people will be close at hand.