Xia Gaizun's "Without love, there is no education", Russell's "Where teachers lack love, neither character nor wisdom can be fully or freely developed" and Suhomlinski's "I dedicate my whole heart to children". What is the most basic condition for being a good teacher? Teacher Li Zhenxi replied that she has a heart that loves students.
A sincere educator, at the same time, must be a sincere humanitarian, a teacher who is sincerely loved by children, and must be the most humane person. Only innocence can awaken love, and only love can nourish innocence.
Without emotion, all education is impossible.
This kind of emotion is not pretentious and approachable, nor is it a condescending emotional gift from teachers to students, or even an emotional investment to achieve some educational purpose, but an equal and sincere feeling like a friend.
If you love students, you should be good at entering their emotional world. If you want to enter their emotional world, you should treat yourself as their friends to feel their joys and sorrows.
Suhomlinski said: "Every child interests me. I have always wanted to know what his main energy is devoted to, and what he is most concerned about and interested in? " What kind of happiness and pain does he have? "
Teachers' sincere love for students is the emotional charm that we infect students.
Some teachers always like to show their unfathomable and awe-inspiring demeanor in front of their students, and realize their dignity from it. In fact, this is not dignity, but majesty. True dignity is respect, not awe. Teachers and students should be absolutely equal in personality, and teachers should not be above students. Therefore, our love for students should not be condescending and approachable, but heartfelt love for friends.
This expression of love is both meticulous and unconscious. In class, in the face of students' greetings, we nodded impolitely, but bowed deeply with sincere gratitude; When the temperature drops suddenly and we feel cold, we will naturally urge students to put on more clothes. When the students' birthdays arrived, the class teacher sent greeting cards with a smile, and we invited the students to go hiking. Comment with students after class and even argue about social facts. When we naturally give love to students, students will not only treat us as teachers. This is the dignity we have gained, not only the dignity of teachers, but also the dignity of friends, comrades, brothers and parents.
The true dignity of teachers, in a sense, is not our personal subjective feelings, but students' moral affirmation, knowledge admiration and emotional attachment to us.
Yesterday, class lunch management. Li Tongxue ran to the podium and told Xiao Pang that the food in his mouth was deliberately spit on him. This is the second time this week that he complained about Xiao Pang. I looked at Xiao pang, who was still eating, so I turned my head and said understandingly, "I'll deal with it later." .
Unexpectedly, a few minutes later, a student ran over and said Xiao Pang had a fight with someone. He got up quickly and looked over. Hua angrily came to my side, angrily followed, Wang Xiao ran up, and Li.
Seeing chubby red eyes and worried about fighting, I also said hello to him. Hua pointed to me and said what happened just now. It sounds like he has nothing against Xiao Pang. It turns out that there is still a contradiction between Xiao Li and Xiao Pang. I asked Xiao Li to explain what just happened. When Xiao Li was talking, Hua and Wang, surrounded by a left and a right, interrupted him and accused Xiao Li of cursing first. I stared at Xiao Li and asked him again. Xiao Li didn't speak, and Wang began to accuse him again. Xiao Li felt disgusted and went back at once, facing China for a while and Wang for a while, unwilling to be told by them.
Thinking, I told Xiao Li that I would look into it. He took the initiative to provoke Xiao Pang and make things worse, and he couldn't help getting angry. He snapped at him, "Now I ask you. You just answered my question. Ask Xiao Pang later. Why did you go looking for him again? " Then, I said two "master protectors". "The teacher is understanding the situation. Is interrupting the accusation helping the teacher or making trouble? "
After that, Hua immediately shut up, while Wang was still talking to Xiao Li. I asked, "Are you going to deal with this problem now? Then you come. " Xiao Li was busy fighting back, but Wang still wouldn't listen to me. My voice immediately raised a little: "Wang, as soon as I finished speaking, Hua immediately understood." The teacher wanted to find out, so he kept silent at once. But you made it clear to you. Are you still talking about Xiao Li? ! "
Seeing that I didn't ask anyone, I told him and Wang finally calmed down. "China, you go first, I will find you if necessary. Wang, you stay here! "
Next, I asked Xiao Li and Xiao Pang to tell the story one by one. Xiao Pang, who had been standing behind, lost his eyes and told me what had happened in a stable mood. Xiao Li is one of the lunch managers. Seeing Xiao Pang eating slowly, he said something discontentedly. In his eyes, he is rude, but in the eyes of the king, he is cursing. Xiao Li firmly denied this, saying that he was just reminding.
When talking about Xiao Pang spitting food, Xiao Pang said softly, I just accidentally spit it out when I was talking. I turned to the king and asked, "How do you feel when food is sprayed on you?" "disgusting." Wang said bluntly.
"Yes, I also feel sick. This is not the first time. " I said to Xiao Pang again. "It is his responsibility to urge you to eat quickly. The head teacher asked him to do so. He is serving the class. If he doesn't hurry you, it's his fault. And when you eat to the end again, you are still dissatisfied with his reminder. It's not intentional, but it can be avoided, isn't it? This is the second time. "
Then he said to Xiao Li, "You reported this in the morning paper. I said I knew I would understand later. That's because he is still eating. You mean him, he can't digest well. If you are training for eating, will it be very sad? " The teacher is going to wait until he has a good meal. I have already replied to you, and you ran down to curse again. Can your method be improved? Your initial intention is right, but you should pay attention to the method when managing. "
The two are very calm and will pay attention to each other after chatting. Finally, Wang was left behind, and I slowly said to him, "The teacher should be a fair and just teacher. I can't just listen to one side of the story. I want to know the situation of two people, and at the same time, I want to ask witnesses to tell me that you are assisting the teacher at this time. But when I first learned about the situation, you blamed one party blindly and didn't give him a chance to speak. Is this conducive to solving the problem? "
He nodded slightly at me. "You can bravely expose lies, which is the embodiment of justice. I really appreciate it． However, you also want to help the teacher solve the problem. Listen to me, be quiet at once and wait for the teacher to deal with it. If I need it, I will definitely get information from you two. You can't just rely on accusations, which can't solve their contradictions. " Said, and patted his face, "pay attention to the ways and means in the future. You were heckling just now, and the teacher couldn't ask any questions. You see, am I angry, too? " He nodded again.
Just now, I really raised my voice, showed authority, pretended to be dignified, and stopped quarreling. Such a big child has stopped talking, and he must still be dissatisfied. He still has to speak calmly, just like Teacher Li Zhenxi said:
There is still a difference between management and education. Management focuses on the results, and education must focus on the process, so that students can be inspired and learn to educate themselves slowly.
(Qi 2021September Annual Writing Brand IP Training Camp, article 128, punch in: reading. 2706 words, a total of 23876 1 word)