The "28 Law" applies to everything. For example, in a person's growth process, intellectual factors and non-intellectual factors play a role at the same time, with intellectual factors accounting for 80% and non-intellectual factors accounting for 20%, but truly successful people achieve success by improving non-intellectual factors. But now, parents in China tend to attach importance to intellectual factors and ignore non-intellectual factors, which is a big misunderstanding of education in China.
Second, the "28 law" of book knowledge and practical knowledge.
People get knowledge from books or learn from experienced people, accounting for 80%, while actual learning accounts for 20%. You get not only knowledge but also emotion through practical learning, so practical learning is extremely important. However, most parents think that children should acquire knowledge from books in order to win the exam.
Third, the "28 Law" in family education and school education.
The time and depth of family education accounts for 20%, and that of school education accounts for 80%. As children grow older, the proportion of this kind of school education will be greater. Parents are not only their children's first teachers, but also their children's most important teachers. They play a decisive and crucial role in children's growth, and school education is only auxiliary education.
Fourth, the misunderstanding of single-parent families.
The mainstream view in society is that children in single-parent families have various problems, which is actually a serious prejudice.
There is such a set of data: single-parent families account for 10% of the total families. Among the Nobel Prize winners, children from single-parent families account for 37%; 55% of children from single-parent families have become presidents of the United States and British prime ministers, while Obama, Clinton and Churchill are all children from single-parent families. Among scientists, children from single-parent families also account for more than 50%; Artists account for the largest proportion, and our saints Confucius and Mencius all come from single-parent families.
Seeing the above data, I want to say something for the children of single-parent families. No matter what kind of family you come from, you will succeed as long as you choose the right method. Don't be influenced by secular ideas. Your destiny is in your own hands!