Do you know the Literature of Versailles? This is a new online hot word released this month. Through the way of openly belittling and secretly praising, "the clue of aristocratic life" is inadvertently displayed.

This feeling of "selling well after getting cheap" is the essence of learning. In fact, "Xue Fan" is also very popular in Ma Bao circles. If you don't believe in your product, you will be fine!

Speaking of Xue Fan, many treasure moms have long been "Versailles masters" in their classes, but there was no unified title at that time, and now they have found an organization. Come and experience it.

TOP 1。 "Dressing Buddha" dazzles the baby

This precious mother advocates "happy education", claiming that she never cares about her children's study, and keeps saying that she will go abroad to study if she fails to get into Beijing. Finally, her children left her 700-point report card in front of her mother.

Please pay attention to the word "jilt", which seems arrogant, but in fact it is praising the child's success and high grades! You can get good grades without worrying about your parents. Is it sour?

TOP2。 "hidden worry" hyun wa

I spit out a mouthful of chicken soup, which smells like Versailles! It seems that you are worried about your child, but you are still showing off. Seemingly delicate and touching, in fact, "the heart is willing but unable", which makes other old mothers feel sorry!

TOP3。 "Complain" Xianwa

Then there was a wave of "business communication" in the circle of friends. "My son only scored more than 70 points in the exam" and "he will definitely become a talent in the future". Ma Bao criticizes children on the surface, but she doesn't know what beauty is in her heart.

Even if you really think that your child didn't do well in the exam, you should consider other people's feelings a little. After all, there are many low scores.

These "unintentional actions" of parents, on the surface, have won face for themselves, but they have become "unaccompanied", which is disgusting. The most injured are children, and many ordinary mothers still don't know it.

The excessive ostentation of parents artificially raises the "level" of children, and the pressure is too great. It's hard to surpass yourself in the future. Children are like targets, nailed there by their parents early, and they need to work hard to be worthy of their parents' boast.

It is easy to cause "cognitive bias" to children and generate pride. Children's ability to distinguish is limited. Under the long-term psychological suggestion of their parents, they will become "floating", do not listen to criticism, and their studies will stop.

Parents should understand that parents love their children not because they are excellent and give them the capital to show off. Parents' love for children is natural and selfless. Don't let children become "tool people" to show off.

Since Xue Fan became popular, everyone has moved out of his "originator of Xue Fan". For example, Huangmei Opera sang "If you want to save Li Lang at home, who would expect to win the imperial examination", which is a typical "learning is doing everything possible".

A while ago, CCTV broadcasted a variety show "Hello Life", and many famous CCTV mouths recalled the past. When it comes to the college entrance examination, "there is nothing ordinary, only more ordinary".

Sa Beining, whether an undergraduate or a graduate student, went to Peking University and laughed at himself, "This matter is only mentioned twice a year". On the other hand, parents and children like this set very much.

After all, Sa Beining is a very positive person, and he is excellent, which is beyond doubt. Being hit by such a "Versace" terrier is actually the power to set an example for children! It's too late to be happy

1 praise "details": in the process of children's growth, don't always say "you are great", but praise the learning process more, which will help the baby to deepen the correct grasp of details and play a role in prompting.

2 Reject "grandiosity": praise children moderately. Don't lie on the "credit book" just because you have achieved a good result, but praise your child's hard-won achievements. It is worthy of praise if it is not crazy.

Interactive topic: What do you think of Sa Beining's showing off his academic qualifications?