How to educate adolescent girls? Adolescent girls' psychology is often sensitive and delicate, and it is easy to hurt their blx if they are not careful. Therefore, in daily life, parents should not only focus on making money to support their families, but ignore their children's concerns. Below I sorted out how to educate adolescent girls.

How to educate adolescent girls 1 1 to look at problems from the perspective of children? Appropriately meet the wishes of girls

Girls' desire for independence can be realized in a harmonious atmosphere with the help of their parents. Parents should not only see the immature side of a girl, but also see her independent growth. Properly satisfying girls' desire for independence will improve girls' autonomy and self-confidence and help them grow up quickly.

2. Listen more and talk less to help girls become independent as soon as possible.

Respect is very important for the communication between parents and children, and listening is a kind of respect for children. This way is more conducive to equal communication with children and better understanding of children's voices, while preaching is often superficial and difficult to penetrate girls' hearts.

The desire for independence represents the enhancement of girls' independent consciousness. Parents should learn more about girls' independent consciousness through effective listening, so as to give girls more effective guidance.

3. Put down your airs and be a "strategist" for girls' growth.

Adolescent rebellious girls will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.

What should we pay attention to when educating rebellious girls?

1, the child's rebellion, don't blame him blindly, because the more you talk about him, the more he resists.

2. After children enter the rebellious period of youth, parents should pay attention to delegating all kinds of rights to them to help them transition from ignorance to maturity.

3. Avoid "you should", "you must" and "what do you know".

4. Respect children's right to privacy. If the child really doesn't want to communicate with you, don't be too reluctant. Respect children and earn respect for yourself.

5. In the contact with children, discover the advantages of children as much as possible, encourage them more, and reduce their resistance to you.

6. Don't always talk about academic performance when communicating with children, which will only make children feel psychological pressure to doubt your "sincerity".

7. Pay more attention to children's situation at school, but don't let children feel "collusion between parents and teachers".

How to educate adolescent girls 2 1 and how to discipline rebellious children

Make more suggestions or choose conditions.

Because we know that rebellious children like to do the opposite, then if parents ask their children at this time, the rebellious children will obviously not agree.

When you do this, you will not only fail to meet your expectations, but also make yourself angry and annoyed. If you calm down and think about it, you will know that this is forcing your child to realize his wishes, not making his life better.

Listen to the child patiently.

If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to disobedient children is usually swearing. At this point, parents are advised to calm down, try to be patient and ask their children what the reason is.

When parents' mind has been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behavior is actually excusable and will release a lot of negative emotions.

Communicate with children more.

Create more opportunities to communicate with children. Rebellious children don't like too deliberate conversation, especially educational conversation. The fact is, you should integrate into the children's world, communicate with children in play and entertainment, communicate with children through things they are interested in, and use these things to integrate your thoughts.

2. What are the reasons for children's rebellion?

school environment

Children's school atmosphere is not good, there are always fights or other petty theft incidents, or children are always bullied by others at school, which will gradually produce rebellious psychology. In addition, if children play with some students with bad behavior at school, they will also be exposed to rebellious behavior.

social influence

If children always watch some violent or rebellious videos (or novels), they will also be influenced (rebellious). In addition, if children know some social hooligans outside and often make trouble with them everywhere, there is also a rebellious factor.

disloyalty

When children grow up to a certain stage, rebellious psychology naturally arises, and there will always be something against you and talk back to their parents. In short, it is to annoy parents.

How to educate adolescent girls? Sexual physiology education

Educate girls about the physiological structure and hygiene of genitals; At present, adolescent girls have more and more sexual behaviors during menarche, which gives people inspiration and education in this area is imminent.

Second, sexual psychological education.

A number of surveys show that the sexual maturity tendency of Chinese teenagers is earlier than that in 1950s and 1960s. Leaning forward during sexual maturity leads to the appearance of sexual psychology in advance. Cognitive psychology believes that with the increase of sexual information, people's understanding of sex has changed a lot. All this often stimulates girls' brains and gonads, prematurely promotes the germination of sexual physiology and inevitably promotes the development of sexual psychology. However, the development of social productive forces and the increasing complexity of social life have delayed the maturity of teenagers' social psychology. When their social psychology is immature, they lack scientific understanding of physiological knowledge, and their sexual psychology germinates because of the development of physiological knowledge, which is easy to be deceived.

Third, sexual moral education.

The outlook on life of adolescent girls is gradually formed. By instilling this kind of sexual ethics in them, we can help them distinguish right from wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, and establish a sense of morality and shame. Master the concept of sexual ethics, and you will have a code of conduct for communicating with the opposite sex, self-esteem, self-love and solemnity. In the inner noise of youth, they can control themselves with reason. Moreover, for sexual stimulation and sexual harassment from the society, they can lead an honest and clean life, do not go with the flow, and show strong self-control ability.

Cultivate girls' gender awareness

First, the body makes people feel happy.

From birth, babies feel happy and satisfied with their parents' caresses and hugs, caressing the baby's little face, stroking his skin, making eye contact with him intently and holding him in their arms. All these have instilled in their young minds that the body is a pleasant attitude, and touching others and being touched by others will bring happiness. This is the first step for children to learn gender identity.

2. Gender equality

If the child finds that the opposite sex partner is different from himself, such as clothes, hairstyle, way of urinating, etc. We should guide them to accept differences equally, eliminate the doubt of "whose partner is better" and make children feel satisfied with their gender. Children should be helped to form the concept of gender equality.

3. Gender health role model

With a healthy gender role model in the family, children can cultivate healthy gender identity. It has a lot to do with how parents treat their children and the relationship between parents. In the modern society where the gender gap is narrowing day by day, mothers are still the main caregivers of children. If the father goes back and forth every day and rarely takes care of his family, and the mother feels wronged and angry, then the child is likely to feel the same way. Parents are not only satisfied with their work, but also think that family is more important than work, and children will benefit from it. The expression of parents' love also has great influence on children. When parents express their love with mutual respect, understanding and frankness, children will naturally express their love to their loved ones.

Fourth, know your own gender game.

Girls generally like to do housework at home, and there are no shortage of examples of gender learning in their living environment. There are often mothers and female teachers (kindergarten, primary school, middle school, and there are far more female teachers than male teachers). However, it is also good for girls to communicate with their fathers frequently.