Trust and freedom
Give children enough trust and freedom and let them have autonomy. In this way, children will deal with their own problems rationally and show a sense of responsibility and respect.
Listen to children's opinions
Pay attention to listening to children's opinions and let them express their views instead of drawing conclusions before they say it, which helps to maintain mutual respect.
Gentle voice
Parents should avoid being too tough or loud when reprimanding and accusing their children. Please pay attention to the guidance and discussion in a gentle voice, so that the parent-child relationship established is easier to be equal, harmonious, respectful and trusting.
Space and time
Give children enough space and private time to think independently, make their own decisions and experience their own unique characteristics.
Spend more time communicating.
Parents should spend more time communicating with their children, not only paying attention to their study and life, but also understanding their inner emotional changes. Communicating with children can promote the development of relations and facilitate communication and understanding between the two sides.
Don't rely too much.
Parents should not rely too much on their children to solve their own problems, which may destroy family harmony. Please note that fragile emotions and immature thinking are often everywhere in parent-child interaction.
Share life experience
Parents and children should share their experiences, feelings and thoughts in life. Experience is a valuable resource, and sharing them can help children form a more positive and healthy attitude.
Rational treatment of mental state
In children's mental state, parents should treat their children rationally, understand their needs and troubles, and help them cope with panic, stress and sadness. Only on this basis can parents and children establish an equal, harmonious and respectful parent-child relationship.