1. Before entering the house, my mother must remind herself: forget all the unpleasant things at work, and now she is taking on the role of mother. Children need their mothers to be happy, so don't pass on bad feelings that have nothing to do with children, because children are innocent.
Don't show boredom or disdain when the child happily tells his mother that he got a five-pointed star or a small red flower at school today. Be sure to praise him as happily as your son. The most appropriate way is to say whether you can show it to your mother and share this happiness with him, because this honor is very important to your child.
When a child comes to ask his mother questions like "How to pronounce this word", it's better for her mother not to answer him immediately. The worst answer is "How come you don't even know this word". Mom had better take a look and say, oh, I don't know. Shall we look up the dictionary together? After several times, the mother taught the child to use the dictionary. At the same time, children will have a great sense of accomplishment after looking up this word in the dictionary. After many times, he will get into the habit of not relying on his mother to look up information.
When children come to ask their mothers questions, their mothers should never behave as smart and capable as they do in the workplace. Pretending to be "ignorant" is a good way to encourage children to think clearly about this problem, or mothers can consult books with their children or use the internet. Mother can't say all the answers like "spill the beans from the bamboo tube" and be complacent while saying it, which is not good for the growth of children. After several times, the child will avoid asking her questions and become very inferior.
When the child tells his mother that she didn't do well in the exam today, her mother must restrain her emotions, don't be angry, and don't look gloomy. At this time, the child was nervously observing his mother's face. Therefore, it is best for mothers not to show emotional changes, and let their children take out their papers and analyze what went wrong with them. If the child has understood what is wrong, the mother doesn't have to pester him any more. But in the end, I encouraged him: you see, if you understand, you won't be wrong in the next exam. If mom feels that she can't control her emotions, go to the bathroom to wash her face, look in the mirror and take a few deep breaths.
Life needs to pay attention to details, and life needs to discover details with heart.
When dealing with work, we need to find out the details by heart. Look for details with your heart, and we will find satisfactory details in our work; Look for details with your heart, and we will find the best details in our work; Find the details by heart, and we will find the details of success in our work; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of failure in our work.
When dealing with learning, we need to find out the details with our heart. Discover the details with your heart, and we will find the details of your brain in learning; Discover the details with your heart, and we will find the details that we humbly ask for advice in our study; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of solving the problem in our study; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of our grades in our study.
When dealing with life, we need to find the details with our heart. Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of joy in life; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the painful details in life; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of happiness in life; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the wonderful details in life.
When getting along with colleagues, we need to discover the details with our heart. Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details in the faces of our colleagues; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details in the eyes of our colleagues; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details on your colleague's mouth; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details in your colleagues' hearts.
When you get along with your classmates, you need to find out the details with your heart. Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your classmates talk; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when classmates shake hands; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your classmates meet; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your classmates say goodbye.
When dealing with parents, we need to find out the details with our heart. Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your parents are happy; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your parents are happy; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your parents are in a good mood; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your parents are unhappy.
When dealing with children, we need to find out the details with our heart. Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details of your child's academic performance; Find the details with your heart, and when your child succeeds in his work, we will also find the details; Find the details with your heart, and when your child lives happily, we will also find the details; Find the details with your heart, and we will find the details when your child is happy every day.
Life needs to pay attention to details, and life needs to discover details with heart.
Pay attention to details, and we will find more details; Pay attention to the details, and we will find countless things.
Electronic products are tools, and it is not wrong for us to contact and learn to use them since childhood. Compared with hammers, vises, wheels and typewriters, electronic products are nothing special. Electronic products are just tools, and we need to avoid unhealthy dependence on this tool, especially for children. But the words and deeds that often claim to smash the ipad in children's hands are also crazy.
As for the harm of electronic products, I think you are more worried about some of them, such as some games (even using human weakness to induce consumers to spend a lot of time and energy to do things with extremely low returns) or some "information that you think is not suitable for children to contact" (including articles, videos, pictures, news, comments, aesthetics, value orientation, etc.). ) It's too easy to get.
Children don't touch these things since childhood, but they will make them up twice when they grow up.
If you don't let your child play with fire, he will have a chance to play with fire one day. But on the premise of controlling safety, let him learn how to avoid danger and enjoy playing with fire as soon as possible. Teaching children to use electronic products correctly and healthily in advance is equivalent to giving them a vaccination in advance.
I have seen many examples of good children and students who were in charge before high school playing with themselves in college. Parents are not that easy. They don't just put their children in a safe cage. You have to let them walk freely in the wild, follow you carefully, and guide him to learn all kinds of rules and skills at any time to distinguish between normal beatings and real dangers, so as to intervene in time when children really need them. When I was a child, my mother and my aunt advised me not to play games. Now they are all middle-aged and elderly people, and they are more interested than me. Resistance is something that all people need to cultivate.
Lazy parents: "This is your ipad, leave me alone."
The "benefit" of electronic products is to keep children away from me. Many parents think this is a shortcut to deal with "Xiong Haizi". I advocate that when adults are at home, they can do anything with their children, play tablet and watch suitable videos. You can wash clothes and ask them to hand over a basket, and you can repair water pipes and help deliver wrenches ... Remember, make sure that electronic products are just tools, not disasters. Adults take the initiative to intervene, prevent in advance, guide reasonably and intervene moderately, so that children can benefit more and suffer less. But if you want electronic products to reduce the burden of caring for children, it is completely wrong to regard ipad as a nanny. Uncontrolled nannies can hurt people.
With regard to games, there is no denying that some games are abhorrent now, which makes many parents avoid them, because some unscrupulous businessmen no longer take bringing joy as their mission, but learn to systematically make use of human weaknesses to make money. For teenagers and even infants with incomplete personality, once they meet such a devil game manufacturer, they will be in big trouble (ahem, I was actually addicted when I was a child ... so I don't want my children to meet it.
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The first step is to play games with children and give them some poison first.
After a lot of game trials, I choose games suitable for children's age, and try to choose games with beautiful pictures (by the way, cultivate aesthetics) and high requirements for life/science knowledge (which can let children see more of the world). At the same time, I suggest that advanced smart people play cool and arrogant games with their brains, and click the mouse to pile up powerful games played by fools. It's foolish to know only that violence is used to solve problems. Those manufacturers are so bad, they want to cheat us of our money with these things, but this is not true ... please combine all kinds of "vaccines" by yourself and don't repeat them.