Ye Shengtao said: "What is education? In a simple sentence, it is to develop habits. " Habits cannot be formed overnight. Once bad habits are formed, you will suffer for life. On the contrary, forming a good habit will benefit you for life. However, not all people can understand its importance. Many people don't pay attention to cultivating good habits since childhood, thinking that they will naturally form habits when they grow up. Is that really the case? Can't you see that some people can't cook by themselves when they go to college? Some people develop into robbery and murder because of their bad habit of petty theft as children? Bacon said: "Habit is really a tenacious and huge force, which can dominate life." Therefore, children's education, especially family education, should pay more attention to children's cultivation education. The following are some of my experiences in developing formative education.

1, in controlling children to watch less TV, my approach is: let her feel at ease when she really wants to watch it, and don't let the children feel guilty when watching it; But I never watch TV at ordinary times, and everyone else in my family tries to turn on TV as little as possible. Parents should also watch TV in moderation, set an example, and use actions to generate persuasion, not words. This works very well. My daughter basically turns off the TV for half an hour every day without my supervision.

2. Learn to survive while doing housework. Sensible children are cultivated by doing housework. If the child doesn't want to do it, he will do it. If an adult takes one step forward, the child will take a step back. The more you do for him, the less the child gets. I realized this a little late, but I'm trying to make up for it now. I designed a behavior habit reward card. Every time my daughter finishes something independently, she gets a red flower, which is enough for me to exchange for 10 prizes. First of all, from the beginning of food, clothing, housing and transportation, my daughter insisted on it very well.

3. Learn to seek knowledge in reading and spend half an hour reading every day. When my daughter was very young, I often put her to sleep by reading Tang poems. Now my daughter can read independently, and her reading habits have been developed, and the reading effect has gradually emerged. She recites things quickly and has strong language skills. At first, you can choose the books your children like. When you are older, adults can guide him to read the books you expect him to read.

4. Learn to be a man through politeness. I think parents will exert a subtle influence on their children in interpersonal communication. From greeting parents and neighbors to giving seats to others by bus. When children have good behavior, we should affirm it in time. Children will learn how to communicate with others unconsciously, and they will easily integrate into society when they grow up.

5. Pay attention to parent-child communication. On the way home every day, I will communicate with my children when I eat. After a long time, the child will tell me what happened. However, when a child communicates with you, don't be furious because he made a mistake, so you block the way for the child to open his heart to you. Education can find another suitable time.

6. Parents' emotions are very important. The child is injured, and the parents' attitude towards the injury determines the child's attitude towards the injury. Don't be too nervous, or the child will be very nervous. Parents' peace of mind is conducive to cultivating children's ability to deal with setbacks correctly and solve problems independently.

The deeper I understand how to educate my children, the more I feel that it is really not easy to be a parent, and I also feel that my ability is insufficient and needs to be further improved. The above is my superficial experience. I hope I can communicate and learn with all parents, make progress together, and make educating children a relaxed and happy thing.