Do more positive education, do some psychological counseling at the same time, spend more time with children and accompany them to finish their homework. Formulate a reward and punishment system, reward the child after completing the homework, and let him be punished for not completing the homework. You can take your children to play on weekends. On the one hand, it can enhance parent-child relationship, on the other hand, it can relax children's mood and drive away depressed emotions.
2. Always contact the teacher.
Understand the child's performance at school. Tell the teacher that the child's current situation is caused by improper upbringing in the past. Can be more specific, so that teachers can really understand the reasons why children are tired of learning, so as to feel sorry for children. In fact, the child wants to go to school, but he has no right. It needs the joint efforts of schools and families to help children and let teachers put down that fear and worry.
3. Reduce the learning objectives appropriately. ?
The goals set by children can be achieved with a little effort, and children will have a sense of accomplishment and success. Gradually, he built up his self-confidence in his study, and he thought to himself that he could and could do it. Of course he likes it and is interested in learning.
4. Set an example. ?
Let children often read biographies of China celebrities, world celebrities or successful entrepreneurs, let children absorb important spiritual food, and learn from the perseverance, tenacious will and efforts of these successful people. Encouraged by this positive attitude, children will gradually become active.
5. Let children build their dreams. ?
Dreams are an important source of children's learning motivation. For children to realize their dreams, he will go all out, overcome all difficulties in learning with confidence and persevere. Therefore, it is important for children to have their own dreams. Simply put, it is to pursue something.
6. Be calm and patient with children's negative emotions. ?
Never reason with a child when he is emotional. Listen to the child cry quietly for a while to calm the child down. Help your children find out why they are crying and what emotions, sadness or anger they are. Show sympathy and understanding for children, wait for children to calm down, and propose new ways to divert attention.